Should I expose him?

[Beaker5]

I'm thinking about putting up an Away message on AIM that contains something about cheaters and I know he will read it as well as his mom. Should I do this or should I just keep letting him think that I don't know anything. I haven't been on AIM ever since I found out about his cheating...(which was two months ago). So should I expose him to his mother. If she reads that, then she'll know what he did and that whatever he told her is a lie. What do you guys think?

[PRSOV]

I don't think you should do that, it is a little immature and if you do he will know you are still thinking about him... and it would kind of spell jealousy to me. You are stronger than that, don't lower yourself to his level.

 

PR

[southerngirl]

I have to agree, I dont think you should do it either. You dont want him to think he is on your mind that much. Even if he is, dont let him know.

[annie24]

I also agree, let it go. the mother is going to believe her son always, not you. that is just how parents are. And who cares what his mother thinks?

 

forget him. you are better without him.

[RayKay]

Not worth it in my opinion..only shows him how you are kind of "hanging on" and well, that's his mom...she'll still love him, and likely believe him. Maybe not...but I just say - don't sink to his level.

 

Put away a message instead about your exciting weekend ahead or something

[Beaker5]

lol..thanks you guys....you always talk sense into me...I actually woke up with this twisted idea in my mind this morning.

[Beaker5]

I guess I just want to get even somehow but I know I won't. I'm just so pissed right now. As I am every day. This sucks.

[annie24]

The best revenge is living well.

[Beaker5]

thanks moe!

[rose2summer]

I definitely wouldn't do that, it will only backfire on you. I agree with putting the message about the weekend ahead of you.

Maybe something like:

"I will be away this weekend exploring Jersey Leave me a message!" Ok that was very generic but you get the idea.