To Shy To Ask

[_Suicidal_Freak_]

Ok here the sitch.I have two guy friends who like me both very VERY much and its getting a little scary.I can't be around the two of them together or the start fighting over me.Yet I'm caught in between my two best friends.but the thing is theres this other guy i really really like.but i'm to shy to even talk to him.I'm scared because i don't know whats going to happen and i don't know how to let my two friends know i like somebody else!

 

HELP!

[DN]

First let them know that you only like them as friends and hopefully that will stop the fighting.

 

Then start flirting with the other guy - try smiling at him and holding his gaze a little longer than you normally would.

[_Suicidal_Freak_]

But i can't hold a gaze!i get shy and really scared!i'm so shy i walk with my head down anywhere i go.

[DN]

Now is the time to practice not doing that. A little at a time.

[_Suicidal_Freak_]

ok i'll try...its just i get scared by guys!i'm tough around girl..(i've been in a few catfights)..but around guys i feel like a little ant trying to scare a dog.

[DN]

well -we're not that bad. Once you give us a chance you'll be surprised to find how much we actually like you.

[Kevin T]

Listen... you have NO reason to be so shy. I'm sure you have a lot to offer a guy. Think of it this way: You've got 2 guys already fighting over you! That says a lot. You must be quite a catch, so why be so shy?

 

You're not trying to scare anyone, you're just talking. Just gauging to see if he might be interested. And if he isn't, no biggie. You'll find someone else who will like you. As I said, you've got 2 guys fighting over you. That shows you're obviously someone who is likable and accepted by guys. Go with it!

[_Suicidal_Freak_]

ok...i'll try....but i have a bit of a dilema...he lives about 30 minutes away and goes to another school...how do i show that i like him???i added him to my msn but he hasn't come on yet.

[DN]

when he does send him a wink

[_Suicidal_Freak_]

ok thanx guys