Scared

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

here's the thing, this girl i'm currently dating and i last went out saturday night and i sent her an email last night saying i wanted to start a relationship together and haven't heard from her, one of our friends (who is like a sister to me) said i really needed to talk to her, and that just got me really scared right then and there and i kept asking her why, and if it was bad, and she said no just talk to her, so i ended up calling her, and i got her voice mail and just left her a message saying to get me back some time, and i'm still afraid, because i don't know what all this is about

[melrich]

Don't listen to other people in this case. Talk to your date and find out what she is feeling. No one but her can tell you what's going on.

[coollady1957]

Don't listen to other people in this case. Talk to your date and find out what she is feeling. No one but her can tell you what's going on.

 

 

I agree with Melrich. Also, when was it that you called and left her this voicemail message? If it has only been a short while ago, maybe she has not had a chance to call you yet.

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

it was earlier today, but it's not so much that i'm anxious for her to call back i'm just scared to know that it's something bad on my part

[coollady1957]

How many times have you and this girl been out on dates? Also what is her age? I am asking questions because I am trying to get a feel of the situation and look at it from a young females view point. I am 48 now, but I certainly have been through the dating stuff "way back in the day" as my son calls it. LOL

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

we've been on a few maybe once a week, 15 and 17

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

well nevermind i've got it all straightened it out it's not going any where and i'm cool with that

[coollady1957]

Did you finally talk to her? What did she tell you ?

[BBHFutureAllAmerican]

she decided to cut it off with me