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  1. there's way more to life and relationships then sex, and this is coming from someone who is 16 years old! sure i had my great time bein a player (last summer n the summer before) but my current girlfriend managed to stop that, like something just clicked n i felt like this girl actually mattered, and she did, so don't think you can't have fun with your life without a girlfriend, trust me, you'll have a girl you just think is amazingly beautiful, but you'll always find someone better looking. That is, if that's what you're looking for.
  2. i do definitley have a lot of thinking to do, and we do talk about a lot of these things already, and it's been really boggling my mind about it, that's why I came here cuz we've been talking about this for the past 3-4 months now, cuz it'll be here sooner then expected, but thank you. and thank you, because i really do want her here, we've dealt with a lot different stuff in our fairly short time together, and i wanna be there for it all, simple and the struggle, but thank you so much!
  3. indeed i don't, so you're saying i'm wasting my time with this one girl?
  4. ok so I know this is very odd, we're both 16, but she's a year older ahead of me in high school, so she'll be graduating a year sooner. And by now you are all thinking, "Wow this kid is way too young to be worried about this stuff!" The truth is that I really do have her set on the rest of my life, I have met a lot of different people, gambled my chances with different girls, wasted time on different girls, and I'm sure this is the one I want to be with. If you're still thinking we're too young for this, college is only 2 and a half years away for me, n a year and a half for her. Her mom wants her to go to her alum near Chicago (a good 5 hours from here) or to a college in Sioux City (about 6 1/2 hours from here.) She has told me that she wants to go some place close, like one in Cedar Falls, which is an hour and a half from here. She currently lives a half an hour away, but college is a heck of a lot different then high school. I've told her I want her to go wherever she'll benefit most for her career, but the thing is she still doesn't know what she wants to do, but I would honestly rather her happy without me, and make a decent living, then be miserable with me. The thing that still gets me is that I've really invested a lot into our relationship and it does honestly worry me that she'll meet somebody knew, and with all that time and effort spent with her, will cease to be of any importance anymore. I guess I'm just really ranting, but any advice on how to cope and/or deal with this would be much appreciated!
  5. i play sports n i run for a couple hours every other day in the summer (can't run in the winter cuz of asthma) n the days i don't run i weight lift, but everything in moderation n you'll be fine
  6. as a very loosely based Buddhist, i consider life the greatest thing ever given to you and i also agree with HellFrost it's the cowards way out
  7. my best friend was run over and killed last spring, understand anything and everything i had to say R.I.P. RJ 03/27/06
  8. thank you very very much! you don't know how much this has really helped me tonight!
  9. lifestream has it! yes, me at 16 years old has hit the college scene (have made a few college visits n have some friends who have the fake ids
  10. well, when you're dead...you're dead, so i don't think it really matters, life is the most precious thing you could ever have, even at it's worst, it's better than anything you can get
  11. well no cuz he claims that he always has to solve my problem (like when i need to borrow the car and he has it at work (just an example)) or if he thinks i should be solving a problem that isn't bothering me in the least and he thinks he needs to get involved with my social life
  12. i really wish it was worth a shot...but no matter what i say or do, it doesn't mean a thing to him, he just doesn't see my point of view where i've been coming from, people don't even invite me to go out and bowl anymore, he doesn't even like when i go to the movies downtown i've tried showing him my side of things but it's no use (i am feeling waaaaaaaaay better than i was about 2 hours ago)
  13. just the usual, well you go to understand that he doesn't want you making the same mistakes he did, but as before she's gone on the weekends and has no say in anything anyway
  14. i've given up trying to reason with him about 8 months ago, and my mom really doesn't understand, she kinda takes both our sides (which i can see why) but she really can't do anything about it being that she's gone on the weekends, but in the summer when i'm not working, she let's me go out and about cuz she knows that i don't hang out with "that" crowd, and she knows that i'll make curfew if not 10 minutes earlier, i just wish my dad could be the same way
  15. i don't go out with my friends...cuz i CAN'T, i work monday and wednesdays from 4:30 to 7:45, then i go to school from 8:24-3:30 then i got practice from 3:45 till 6, and my dad is home by 4, and i don't even bother arguing with him, cuz he doesn't bother changing his mind, but i do leave him a note in the door before he leaves for work so he HAS to read it, but i do occasionally just go out for a drive with my mom cuz driving really calms me down n then i can talk to her about stuff but i just don't know how to fill the void
  16. i actually wrote up a whole theory about this! very nice post, i did meet a new friend...via facebook
  17. i'm not gonna disobey my dad, cuz he knows all, trust me i do not get away with anything, like i've said before he was a regular high school student, but me i'm way different cuz i'm gonna be playin football in college in a couple years so i can't mess that up, i really wish i could talk to my mom, but i won't even talk to her if he's in the room, she works on the weekends which of course is the only time i really have to go out and my dad is always home weekend nights so i really can't do anything, he's got some deal where i gotta tell him what i'm doing 24 hours in advance, so i'll tell him 48 hours in advance, then he'll claim he forgot i said anything to him, he hasn't shown any encouragment for me, all he does is criticize me and say i'm never any good, but i really do miss bein able to actually being able to have a dad that can listen to his own son! (you have no idea how much you're helping me right now)
  18. i have tried, but honestly if you knew my dad you wouldn't say that, he refuses to listen to anything i say, just last thursday i wanted to go to the game, i was offered a ride from one of HIS friends and my mom got to him first and asked and he started yelling at her WHY DOES HE THINK HE'S GOIN ANYWHERE! and my mom says well he just got asked 2 minutes ago then he went on his all-too-famous ra;kjas;eklrj;aklsejrk;jr ;kljas;kljsda rant
  19. ok so to start, me and my dad have not cared for each other for about the last 2 or 3 years, sure he comes to my games, "supports" me when i have a problem, but he's really becoming a conflict between me and my friends, and my girl friend. The problem with my girlfriend is that she lives a half an hour away, he went out with one of his friends drinking last night so she wasn't supposed to be over, but I let her anyway, he didn't end up finding anything out, but today it really got to me, like more than ever before. My gf's dad is a pastor, I am a non-Christian, but her dad invited me to one of their youth group meetings so I said sure I'd like to go, because I love being around her, and if it requires me to go to something that they both believe strongly in and I don't, I'm going to make that sacrafice. My dad on the otherhand says no, (what a surprise) he even knew that her dad had invited me to go, and was even willing to come pick me up (I could have just as easily drove) but my dad ends up telling him off! With my friends even, last weekend me and a friend went out to get some stuff for carnival from a place half an hour away, I call him to see if I can go, course no answer on his phone, we finally get to be where we're at and he says no you can't go cuz what if his car breaks down, so I said yeah whatever, he ends up finding out and calls me grounded. There have been so many instances that I'm no longer invited to parties and stuff, because my friends just figure I can't go out because of him. My parents are still married, but my mom works 3 and a half hours away on the weekend so she really has no say in anything I can or can't do. Like I said it's been stuff like this for the past 2 or 3 years. And I don't need to hear the "oh he's doing it, cuz he wants what's best for you" well if he really knew what's best for me, he'd know that what makes me happy is being out with my friends, I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't do drugs, I have way too much love for going to college to play football to screw it up! so any and all help would be wonderful!
  20. bloodhound gang! haha i wanna sex you up by color me badd
  21. benjamin is my cousin's name who ended up playing college football and baseball! good luck with all!
  22. best of luck to you, he'll be very lucky when he's older,cuz he'll have his birthday AND valentine's day is only one week after that good luck!
  23. i'm definitley likin your stuff, you should totally come to iowa
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