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Right, One Of My Best Mates, *Hes A Boy Like, Called Dan*

 

He has like a Girl Friend and everything. And Hes worring.

 

He has fingered her 3 times now. The 1st 2 times have been fine, both ok.

 

But the 3rd time... His Girlfriend started to Bleed Blood from where he had fingered her.

 

Today is the 2nd Day she has been too, he asked her how she was and she was still bleeding a little blood every now and again and is really sore....

 

What is this?!

 

And How can i support him?

 

Hes cryin, he thinks hes done something really bad, and i hate to see him cry

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He might have torn her hymen, in part, which happens often when a woman loses her virginity, etc. If that is the case, it's nothign to worry about.

 

What he needs to do is support her, and make sure she is OK, and not show her him crying, but he can show that he is worried about her.

 

She may need some help to be reassured that all is well, which it probably is. Is there some way she could have someone examine her medically without any other issues arising?

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Im with BellaDonna, thats what it sounds like to me or he could've possibly just scratched her inside (its happened to me before) and I have bleed for a day or two.

 

On a side note, not trying to be rude but if he is going to freak out over something like this maybe he shouldnt be fooling around just yet! what is he going to do if they "fool" around too much and she gets pregnant if he's freaking out over something so simple it makes you wonder.

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On a side note, not trying to be rude but if he is going to freak out over something like this maybe he shouldnt be fooling around just yet! what is he going to do if they "fool" around too much and she gets pregnant if he's freaking out over something so simple it makes you wonder.

Uhh, I think someone bleeding when you fool around with them is slightly more scary than the risk of pregnancy.

Pregnancy is a commonly known and talked about side effect of sex. It is also preventable, and can be dealt with in various ways.

 

It's not every day, however, that you hear people talking about bleeding as a result of fooling around.

I don't think it's fair at all to say he shouldn't be fooling around if he gets freaked out by blood. They don't even know why she's bleeding. At least if someone gets pregnant, you know why it happened.

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