rachael_unscrewedbottle Posted July 26, 2006 Share Posted July 26, 2006 this is probably weird coming from a teenage girl but other people my age tend to be conscious of their weight, or their thighs or whatever but seriously i completely hate the appearance of my vagina. one being its totally huge and a guy once poked fun at me and called it camel humps when i had my underwear on because it bought out that much under my panties. it looked like a a buldge in a dudes tight boxers. like the lips are pretty huge and i wasn't being gross or anything but i looked at it with a mirror the other day and they're so big it reminded me of a guys testicles. im getting paranoid about it and im too embarrassed to let a guy see my big enormous stupid thing. and its so wrinkly inside like i can hardly find my clitoris and its just so large like ughh, i cant even feel any kind of stimulation, when i touch myself. to be honest i dont think guys ive been with in the past could find it either, and i fear i'll never experience an orgasm. is it possible to like not even have a clitoris? because on a totally frank note, when ive been with a guy (whom of which have all been relationship involved) there was never an incredible feeling down there when we did stuff. not even when he performed oral on me. is there something possibly wrong down there? i remember laughing at the tv for a woman getting a plastic vagina surgerical operated enhancement or whatever its called now i would actually consider it. im getting annoyed too at that fact that i cant even please myself let alone try with another person. grrrrrrrrrrrrr i hate hate hate it! Link to comment
smile_abbey Posted July 26, 2006 Share Posted July 26, 2006 It's a vagina It's not meant to look good or beautiful It's not on your face dear & there isn't a particular way one is meant to be formed It's a subjective thing, and comes in all different kind of sizes etc. It may be as you described it to be large, that you cant find your clitoris. To me it's unknown for a girl not to have one You make yourself sound like a woman with manhood down there or something. referring to it looking like a males testicles and what not. If as you said have been in relationships before and experimented with a guy, they must obviously have not found anything wrong down below for them to do things with you. A man performing oral sex on a girl pretty much gives him a full insight of everything down there. If your worried about having no kind of stimulation, that i'm not sure about. I've never experimented myself with touching and what not, i don't know what the possibilities are of a clitoris failing to respond to self pleasure. Anyone help her out on that ? Link to comment
Sheyda Posted July 26, 2006 Share Posted July 26, 2006 Hi there. I posted about this a while ago since there are lots of women who worry that their vulva looks weird. Here is the link: I hope it helps. Link to comment
voltaire Posted July 26, 2006 Share Posted July 26, 2006 Believe me my dear it will look absolutely beuatiful to whoever loves you. Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted July 26, 2006 Share Posted July 26, 2006 Rachel, I concur with previous posters, and like to add that the whole person matters. In the health section of: Wicked are some ideas on how to handle your appearances. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted July 26, 2006 Share Posted July 26, 2006 I think that your inability to orgasm is linked to your insecurity about your vagina, if its something that you worry about then it will never happen. An orgasm will happen when you are relaxed and comfortable. If you really hate your vagina and you have the means to correct the problem then consider having surgery. Link to comment
zippitt Posted July 26, 2006 Share Posted July 26, 2006 Don't take this the wrong way, but I have always like them the way you described yours. But your inability to orgasm is a common problem with women, and a lot of the time it is all psychological. You might just wanna do some research online, you could probably find enough information to help you. Link to comment
ftc Posted July 27, 2006 Share Posted July 27, 2006 lol does anyone have a hot Vagina!! i agree with day_walker that not orgasming maybe have something to do with your preceeption of your vagina......... so love your vagina for what it is, and all your problems will be solved. hehe Link to comment
miserableme Posted July 27, 2006 Share Posted July 27, 2006 All vagina's are ugly (some refer to it as an "axe-wound"). If it really bothers you, I would see a doctor to make sure you're all normal and there is no unnatural swelling etc. Don't worry about anyone that laughs at you. Most guys would be happy just to get some action. The guy who laughed is just a jerk. Not all of them are like that, no matter how much it seems that way. Link to comment
FoxLocke Posted July 27, 2006 Share Posted July 27, 2006 There is actually cosmetic surgery that can make your vagina look more aesthetically pleasing...Not saying that there is anything wrong with the way it looks now! But if you are very insecure about it you might look into this... Also, no one, except your partner, is EVER going to see your vagina... Link to comment
BurningInside Posted July 28, 2006 Share Posted July 28, 2006 All vagina's are ugly (some refer to it as an "axe-wound"). I beg to differ. I think every vagina is beautiful in its own way. Link to comment
MI_Shell Posted July 29, 2006 Share Posted July 29, 2006 Some guys certainly are jerks and can sense if you feel insecure about something so they will tease you even if there may not even be a logical reason for it. I used to be teased by guys in younger years but it was due to thie own insecurities because I have had good lookers after me later. As you get older you will learn to appreciate yourself more and these feelings should settle down. A lot of people have things about themselves they wish they could change and if it becomes a deep concern to you after a time and something you cannot psychologically accept I would only have surgery as a very last resort. It could be painful and look into and shop around thouroughly for a kind and trustworthy doctor if this is something you decide. Link to comment
Axel3sRoxas Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 I think most women hate their vaginas, I know I do. They're bl0ody ugly things. And as someone said, they're not supposed to look pretty, but to be honest, I don't think guys notice half the things that us girls do. As for the 'not being able to pleasure yourself' situation, maybe you just haven't found a method that feels right for you. As a teenager, you're still discovering your body, so don't worry so much! Link to comment
Survictor Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 I don't think it is very pretty either! Link to comment
Survictor Posted October 24, 2006 Share Posted October 24, 2006 I'd be interested to hear what guys thought of vaginas. Link to comment
jimthzz Posted October 25, 2006 Share Posted October 25, 2006 they're pretty much a turn on when attached to a woman who wants me. I've never seen one in person what wasn't pretty. Don't even consider getting surgery for any head tripping you are doing. Even if the guy made a foolish comment don't assume he was criticizing your muff. He may have merely been admiring it dear. Link to comment
SarahRose Posted October 25, 2006 Share Posted October 25, 2006 I love my vagina! It's beautiful. My bf loves it too! Link to comment
jilligirl Posted October 25, 2006 Share Posted October 25, 2006 I've heard, too, that plastic surgery can do something for this (maybe it was on Dr. 90210?). But I'm not advocating that you do that. If you think you will be able to get over this and accppt this as a part of you, then great. Give yourself some time. But if you really cannot deal with it, then screw it, do what makes you happy. Don't do it for men- do it for you. I would. But that's just me. Link to comment
vermilion Posted October 25, 2006 Share Posted October 25, 2006 God, if any guy made fun of mine he'd never be seeing it again and get a hard kick in his tiny crotch. Forget that loser you're fine the way you are. Link to comment
lost1607307474 Posted October 25, 2006 Share Posted October 25, 2006 Hun, don't stress. Vagina's aren't supposed to be pretty. And you hit the nail on the head when you mentioned how teenage girls stress about body parts and their body image: you're just stressing and obsessing over something which you need not worry about And I can assure you, that guys probably won't inspect your private parts as thoroughly and critically as you do yourself! Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted October 25, 2006 Share Posted October 25, 2006 My vagina is awesome. Only posting rules are stopping me giving photographic evidence. Any sensible person who wanted to get into my bed would agree with me! Link to comment
jilligirl Posted October 26, 2006 Share Posted October 26, 2006 My vagina is awesome. Only posting rules are stopping me giving photographic evidence. Any sensible person who wanted to get into my bed would agree with me! LOL I'm sure you made the original poster very happy Link to comment
redrose85 Posted October 26, 2006 Share Posted October 26, 2006 I hate mine too. I think most women do. Penises are also very ugly. My vagina is too short, so it stops me from doing a lot of things I'd like to do in bed, and one labia is way bigger than the other *blush* Link to comment
rocio Posted October 26, 2006 Share Posted October 26, 2006 I beg to differ. I think every vagina is beautiful in its own way. Agreed. And my bf has made fun of mine before. But I laughed it off. I mean, have you seen their balls? They're so shrivelly. But also cute in their own way. Link to comment
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