Talking Dirty

[Skippy]

OK guy,

This is what i have been wondering,

When does dirty talk come in?

What is 'dirty' a turn ON and what is 'dirty talk' a totally turn off??

What do you guys say when talking dirty to your partner?

 

This is a serious question so pls dont delete it.

[lunatic]

Everyone is different when it comes to matters of the heart and bedroom. I would discuss this with your partner since he/she will be the only one to answer this question.

[PRSOV]

I think you can really say anything to your partner, it is just how you say it to them is what can make it a turn-on or a turn-off...

 

Usually if I go to a party at a mates place and I get involved with girls I find that just whispering into their ears usually is more of a turn on than anything else. What you like about them and what you like to do with them, like have naked cuddles for example.

 

It really depends on the indivual and the tone it is used...

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

I tell my boyfriend how much I've missed him and various parts of his anatomy, how much he turns me on, the kind of things I want him to do to me, how amazing he is.. Keep it truthful, just vocalise your thoughts as you are having sex, really.

[yeawutever]

It's all about saying what you and your partner would do in real live (as if intimacy was really there).

[SwtMary]

For me, dirty talk is calling me names and is appropriate only during sex. I like to be called certain names DURING sex, but get angry if I am called them OUTSIDE of sex...

[Kitz]

Mmm.. I find talking dirty the biggest turn on!!

 

Not really talking dirty, like, oh, ride me hard you dirty slu*t, but more vocalising your thoughts... once me and my BF were talking and hes like, I wish you wore skirts more often... so I was like, why, and he was like, so I could feel you up whenever I want, slid his hand up my thigh and kissed me. hahaha, i got so turned on over that!!

 

And... oh, i cant even think of any other explanation except vocalising your thoughts. Damn, you're so hot... you dont need that shirt =O! hahaha jks

[Vert]

Hmmm my post got erased? Sorry... The topic was "dirty talk" and I even edited the word. My apologies...

 

Anyway, I will rephrase then... My wife isn't into swearing or talking dirty in general, but in bed or when she's trying to be seductive she will throw down the verbal obscenity usually associated with sex . I really enjoy it as it is a turn-on for me.