Q10 Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 I want to know how everyone asks other people if they're sexually tested & clean? do you just ask it straight out? lol because some girls don't like the direct approach.. in the past a girl thought that I'm asking it because I think she was a sl** or something.. Link to comment
RayKay Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 "When was last time you were tested and what were the results?". It's your health on the line, better to be direct then naive. I have never been offended by it personally! And I don't think I ever offended anyone either... Better to also ask NOT in the heat of the moment, when people may not be truthful....and ask before you sleep together! Sometimes it's good just to go together, and suggest a "testing day date"....then you both are doing it together. Go for lunch after Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 I really like you and I want to take this relationship to the next stage. Want you to know I've been tested for std's and am clean. What about you? Link to comment
Iceman26 Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 I want to know how everyone asks other people if they're sexually tested & clean? do you just ask it straight out? lol because some girls don't like the direct approach.. in the past a girl thought that I'm asking it because I think she was a sl** or something.. Dude, when it gets to the point that sexual relations are going to happen, suggest that you BOTH get tested. They can't really protest that. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 It's much easier to have that conversation if you wait until you've been dating seriously at least a few months. If the person is insulted then I would question her intelligence and whether she lives in the real world. Link to comment
Vert Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 Dude, when it gets to the point that sexual relations are going to happen, suggest that you BOTH get tested. They can't really protest that. I agree. You don't want to suggest that your partner get tested while continuously saying how you're clean so you don't need to do it. It's basically saying that you don't trust them while telling them that they should obviously trust you instead. Doesn't work that way... Link to comment
TheWriter1 Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 i've heard that people with HIV must tell a potential partner before hand, if they don't it is considered more or less murder if the person contracts it from them. The same goes for their ex-partners, if an ex isn't informed its a felony... correct me if i'm wrong Link to comment
elveden Posted June 3, 2006 Share Posted June 3, 2006 Perfectly reasonable question, no reason to react in any negative way whatsoever.. Would you not ask a pilot whether he'd flown a plane before if you thought it might hurt his feelings? Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now