inspiration Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 well I met this person online and they live where I go to school and work... we hit it off well and have alot of common interests but I don't want to throw it all away in an discussion online. is it awkward to ask her to coffee or for her number in a brief chat? just curious and thanks! -.ins Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 i think its best to just go ahead and ask, if she says no, its not really a big deal. but go ahead and do it ...get it over with, just say, would you ever like to do something... something like that. Link to comment
lucia Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 I don't think it's weird. If you two really like each other ask her. Link to comment
inspiration Posted April 27, 2006 Author Share Posted April 27, 2006 i just think throwing text and possible connection away on a chat program is really pointless. Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 i just think throwing text and possible connection away on a chat program is really pointless. i agree wholeheartedly. i think its too weird if you're trying to get to know someone. you should ask to meet, you know somewhere public, so she doesn't get scared, etc. or ask if you can call her? youll need to progress. otherwise it's called stagnation, and you know what comes after stagnation? festering...lol... and that's just not good. Link to comment
LostInMyThoughts Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 For online chats and stuff, it's better for the guy to give the girl his phone number. Yeah its sexist, but it'll make her feel a little more at ease about not having to share personal information. And you have to ask her out sometime right? Coffee is nice, because a coffee date is in a public area, and can be as short or as long of a date as you need it to be. Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 i'd rather give him mine, he can't track down where i live by it, as it's mobile. and if he starts telephone harrasing me i'll just block him! Link to comment
tylercdurden2004 Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 i'd rather give him mine, he can't track down where i live by it, as it's mobile. and if he starts telephone harrasing me i'll just block him! Okay, whats ur number! Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 Okay, whats ur number! ok, yes, i'll post it right HERE! haha, just as soon as you stop acting like a big poo! lol.. Link to comment
inspiration Posted April 27, 2006 Author Share Posted April 27, 2006 she asked me... out. hahaha. Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted April 27, 2006 Share Posted April 27, 2006 good for you inspiration....good luck and have fun! Link to comment
inspiration Posted April 27, 2006 Author Share Posted April 27, 2006 thanks - runner's high followed by that makes for a pretty good day. Link to comment
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