This was weird...what do I do?

[confusedmale]

I went out on two dates w/ this girl back in February and she brushed me off twice and said, ill give you a call, so I left the ball in her court. A few weeks later, a mutual friend tells me shes not interested but she couldnt tell me. So, that was that. Today I get a text message from her. It read...

 

Hi, I really want to apologize for not calling u back...i had so much * * * * going on...I was an * * * for not calling...I hope we can still be friends

 

What would have brought this on? Should I respond? (I mean we weren't friends to begin with) I want to respond, but I don't know what to say honestly. If someone could give me a little advice on how to respond (ie what to say in the text msg)

 

Thanks

[aggierocker]

Don't waste your time on her.

[itsallgrand]

She feels guilty bc she realized she didn't handle things very nicely.

 

Question: what are your intentions in talking to her again?

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

maybe you should write her back and say, "now that you mention it, why didn't you ever call me back?"

[cranberry]

I say she just feels guilty for the way she ended it with you. I do not think she is interested in you--at the least, as friends. And in this case, friends= don't hate me, or be rude to me next time I bump into you.

 

As for you're response, I would keep it short, such as "Ok. No problem. See you around."

[Dating Coach]

She's just feeling guilty for not returning your phone call because you were at least nice to her. It's nothing more. Don't even respond.

[MrMilk]

Sounds like she's just trying to fish to see if you're still into her - either she wants a small ego boost or wants to have you as back up. Stay well away.