SeaBisquit Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 Seeing how it means absolutely nothing when my bf continuously goes out with his buddies to strip clubs. i decided it would mean absolutely nothing if I strip down to nothing at a party he was having with a few of his friends. I gave a few lap dances and had a great time. Link to comment
good_charlotte_freak2 Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 Is there a moral? Or an ending? Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted March 6, 2006 Author Share Posted March 6, 2006 he got pissed... so i said i thought it means nothin to see girls naked serving beer. that's what i did. I served his friends beer topless. whats the difference? Link to comment
Hope75 Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 Didn't he break up with you a few weeks ago, and then you assaulted him at a strip club after? Did he get back with you after that?? Link to comment
DN Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 Do you still want him? Does he still want you? Link to comment
Lady Bugg Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 I can hear the chants now.. JERRY JERRY JERRY"!!!! Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted March 6, 2006 Author Share Posted March 6, 2006 DN, no i don't think he wants me now. doesn't matter tho because his friends do. Link to comment
the yang to the worlds yin Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 his friends may want you now, but not for the right reasons. don't do that to yourself Link to comment
Hope75 Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 DN, no i don't think he wants me now. doesn't matter tho because his friends do. Hon, Do you really feel as though taking your clothes off and grinding your exes men is a respectable thing to do? Do you think these men will want to get to know you now? If it were me, I wouldn't be interested in anything beyond using you for sex, knowing you respected yourself so little that you stipped in front of a bunch of guys, likely to piss of your ex. You are worth much more than that. Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted March 6, 2006 Author Share Posted March 6, 2006 the point is to guys going out to strip clubs and hanging out with the boys and getting lap dances from strippers means absolutely nothing but guy fun. guy fun means seeing women naked. it"s not guy fun to spend a nite with your gf. only guy fun to a guy when the girl is naked. Link to comment
the yang to the worlds yin Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 i find that generalization quite unfair to men. Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted March 6, 2006 Author Share Posted March 6, 2006 thankyou Hope i'm having a hard time dealing with this crap. i could handle it if he was going out with the guys every so often. But it has become a ritual. Link to comment
Lady Bugg Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 Jaycee.... this won't piss your ex off..it will simply give him justification to continue disrespecting you. This whole relationship sounds out of control. Perhaps what you should consider doing is wiping your hands of this whole relationship....and moving on. Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted March 6, 2006 Author Share Posted March 6, 2006 yangs to the worlds that is what most of them will say tho. I am speaking of my situation only tho. I'm not knocking anyone else on the forum. some people aren't bothered by it. I am tho, my bf goes there alot and spends lots of money there. then he says he has no money to do anything with me. Link to comment
DN Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 His friends will not see you as a potential girlfriend but as a potential temporary bedmate. I am afraid that this is one revenge tactic that may have put you in a worse light than your boyfriend. Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted March 6, 2006 Author Share Posted March 6, 2006 I'm really not ashamed by it. at least right now i'm not. i feel i have proven my point. he can do with it what he wishes. Link to comment
DN Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 You may have proven the wrong point. Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted March 6, 2006 Author Share Posted March 6, 2006 DN how would I have proven the right point? he's a jerk. Link to comment
Lady Bugg Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 How about bye telling him Goodbye??? Thats a good start.... Link to comment
DN Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 DN how would I have proven the right point? he's a jerk. And you may have made the point that you are prepared to degrade yourself in a misguided and probably ineffective attempt to humiliate your now ex boyfriend. The chances are that he will be boasting about this stunt not humiliated by it. Link to comment
SeaBisquit Posted March 6, 2006 Author Share Posted March 6, 2006 Great. see i don't understand guys logic at all. Link to comment
Hope75 Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 At this point seeing as you are broken up, I'm not sure what you were trying to prove. Isn't the best revenge living well without him If he left you- he isn't worth your time. Link to comment
DN Posted March 6, 2006 Share Posted March 6, 2006 But then there seems to be some females on here who don't understand your logic either. So far no one from either gender seems to think that what you did was a good idea. No one's trying to beat up on you but some of us are trying to make you see that you may not have accomplished what you set out to do. Link to comment
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