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[LEFEM24]

I asked someone..point blank......ifhe didn't ever wanna talk to meagain...why didn't he BLOCK me from his email/phone etc.....THAT was the true test. he never blocked me................OR replied why. So whats the answer?????

[melrich]

Maybe he just forgot to block you.

[AwdreeHpburn]

What's the question?

 

Why didn't he block you if he didn't ever want to talk to you again??

 

Maybe he didn't think it would be necessary. Maybe he didn't think of it at all.

[LEFEM24]

Well..I have his email/phone. If he is "hell bent " on never speaking to me again why didnt he block ? I know he reads my emails etc....so why bother???

[melrich]

Who knows..maybe it is just curiosity, maybe he just forgot to block you, maybe he is keeping tabs on you.

 

Why don't you just block him?

[LEFEM24]

Hahhahaha Melrich. Good question. Because I am the one who keeps this "crazy" thing going. He has the POWER to turn me "off...yet he does not. I am just curious why he doesn't. He is either a 'masochist"...he REALLY likes me (secretly) or he is just f-ing CONFUSED...lol

[keenan]

Or he just doesn't care enough to make the effort. Or he thinks you're reasonable enough to not contact him when he asked you not to.

[smallworld]

Hey LeFem24, is this the same guy who's twice-divorced? He doesn't block you because he doesn't have to. From what you've previously said, it sounds like your Ex believes you'll come back, because you always do.

 

Rather than focus on what he is and isn't doing, I think the more important questions are "What do you want?" and "Do you honestly believe this guy could ever give those things to you?"

 

A relationship that's lop-sided is very telling. It says who's willing to put forth the effort because they value the relationship more. What did your Ex's past actions tell you about how he felt not only about you, but the two women he divorced?

[brando]

Well if you want to continue to believe HE HAS THE POWER TO TURN YOU OFF, then you will always be on this side of the table.

 

 

Try to take some responsibility for your life. And stop waiting around for this guy to block you or unblock you, or whatever it is you think is a sign from the heavens above that he no longer wants to sperak to you.

 

It is your life, it is time for you to take back your personal power.

[zavlow66]

I just think he's trying to be polite. Do you REALLY wanna be blocked from his E-mail and/or phone?. I think if you were blocked it would hurt you more then him not replying or taking your phone call(s).