This guy confuses me.

[thatonegirl]

When were together it seems like he likes me. we went out on our 2nd date wednesday. he said he'd call me the next day he hasnt called or texted me at all! today I text him. I just said hi and he hasnt even texted me back. I mean MAYBE he is busy but I doubt hes too busy to send a simple text. What is a normal(if there is such a thing) time limit to expect a call again?

[AwdreeHpburn]

I think it may be a bit early to tell. There is no way of knowing what's going on at his end. Seems like after a 2nd date, 3 days is a good turn around time to give someone a call back. Maybe he's playing it cool or maybe he's got something going on. Give it a bit more time.

[annie24]

hmmm.... I think it's a potential red flag. I've been dating my bf for 3 months and he ALWAYS calls when he says he's going to. I don't have to wait 3 days to hear from him.

 

More importantly, do you want to be with a man who doesn't stick to his word?

 

It's true - 2nd date is still early on. But, if he consistently is "busy" and "forgets to call", you might want to "accidentaly" delete his number out of your cell phone.

[shes2smart]

I agree with annie. If he's too busy to return a call, then how is he going to have any time to date or develop a relationship?

 

I wouldn't bother pursuing him. If he's interested, he'll make the effort. If he's not, then why should you bother?

[nenez]

If he isnt calling you back he may be just adaopting typical male beahaviour, ie not realisisng that in dating terms to a man a week is not a long time and the failure to call is not an issue, However "nd date is too early for you to have a problem with it. if he calls fine if not Fine!! At least you know what sort of man he is. If he leaves it more than 2 weeks to call back dont date him again .

Good lucj

Nenez

[AwdreeHpburn]

Maybe he doesn't want to appear over anxious.

 

I think its too early to tell anything.

[ElektraHere]

I agree with Annie and S2S that if this guy is too busy to at least say "hey" then just move on. I would say that if it was the 2nd date maybe he just isnt interested and instead of returning your calls or answering your text to tell you this avoidance is his MO.

Good Luck

[thatonegirl]

Just as an update he hasnt text me back at all. so ive decided to just move on and date other ppl. thanx.