am i shallow?

[cleveland9]

im friends with this girl, and shes hott and cool, but i wouldnt consider dating her, not now anyways, but we both just talked on aim like minutes ago, and basically hinted e/o on that each of us would be confortable fooling around. i dont know exactly hwo she feels, but all i want to do is mess around, ntohin more, nothin less, not to take advantage of her, but just b/c she will and i will, and we are friends, and more of a why not than a why question. thanx

[secret_agent_man]

I think you answered it all by yourself. Just make sure that she really isn't expecting anything else, or it might come back to bite you.

 

S.A.M.

[smiles314]

JUST make sure she knows because some girls get really emotional, and even if they say they won't sometimes they end up getting hurt anyway. So don't be a jerk to her at all.. Be kind a make sure she is totaly comfortable with the idea, and u should be okay.

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

I think maybe u should just stay clear of the fooling around path or she may get the wrong idea and make urself clear that u only wanna b friends for now even u'll most likely change ur mind in the future...

 

Happy heb

[bzborow1]

Do it at your own risk. Make sure that you explain to her beforehand what your intentions are. That way, even if she suddenly changes ships after you've fooled around and decided it's more then that you won't feel like a complete jerk.