Question to mainly ladies but if u guys wanna answer ok!!

[Scottyeatsk]

Well see, it's mainly almost always them girls complaining about us guys wanting nothing but sex, or that we only wanna talk about sex online. Well I dunno wut to say now, I'm currently dating this girl, when ur online, well when she first met her online, she would talk about mainly sex, or send me porn pics. Then, when she's at my house, I see her getting online and talking dirty to guys there or whenever we're watching movies, she brings porn films, that got me surprise, she has a more sex drive than I do. So I was wondering, doesn't girls feel the same thing when they see a naked guy??

[RayKay]

Well see, it's mainly almost always them girls complaining about us guys wanting nothing but sex, or that we only wanna talk about sex online. Well I dunno wut to say now, I'm currently dating this girl, when ur online, well when she first met her online, she would talk about mainly sex, or send me porn pics. Then, when she's at my house, I see her getting online and talking dirty to guys there or whenever we're watching movies, she brings porn films, that got me surprise, she has a more sex drive than I do. So I was wondering, doesn't girls feel the same thing when they see a naked guy??

 

Girls have a sex drive as well, and many women have an extremely high sex drive. Like men's, it can vary all over the place depending on the person, their stress levels, medication, health, diet, confidence and so forth.

 

However sex drive does not necessarily mean all someone wants from someone is sex, either. And sex drives do not control us, one should still be able to make appropriate decisions on how to channel that sex drive. I can still for example be faithful with my partner, and explore my sexuality with HIM, without going elsewhere.

 

But I have a question....how do you feel about this girl you are dating? Are you interested in her past the sexual? How do you feel about her talking dirty to OTHER men????

[Day_Walker]

Whether male or female people are going to respond to stimulus differently depending on certain factors. People also have varying ideas of the kind of behavior that they feel is appropriate. I would say its possible for women to have the same reaction when they see a naked guy as what a guy would do when he sees a naked girl but there also could be another reaction.

[Scottyeatsk]

I don't really mind her cybering with other guys online, she's cool to hang out with. We're not exclusive, so I don't mind, it just got me by surprise, cuz I never encounter before a girl with a high sex drive, higher than mine. Some girls I would talk to online didn't like talking about sex and whenever I asked if they ever played with themselves, they all say no, but this one's different and I like that.

[ocrob]

I think you need to take her mind out of cyber and show her what it is like in real life. I am sure, if you show her some good sex, then she will be all over you. There is nothing wrong with a good sex drive if it is exclusive and you can both have fun.

[ShySoul]

Sex drive and views on sex is dependent on the person, not the gender. Guys can have lower drives (cuddling is just as enjoyable) and women can have high drives.

 

But if a person is having such a high drive as to be needing to get off with other guys while dating you, and while you are around, I question if that is good for the future of your relationship. If you do become exclusive, would you be ok with her continuing that? And do you think she would really want to stop?

[ThE_ReJecT]

my gf is the exact same way...her sex drive is one of the worst the world will ever see...

 

the point to that is: we are breaking up.