er... embrassing question...

[second_opinion]

Hey all!

 

This is an embrassing question, er, how do you kiss with tonuge??? I mean, what the hell are you supoosed to do?

 

I have kissed before but never with tongue, ive been way to embrassed coz ive never been sure what im supposed to do with it!

[Tigris]

Whatever you do don't force it down someone's throat!

 

You're supposed to tease by flicking it around the front of the mouth and then you can play with the other persons tongue.

 

Practice makes perfect!

 

Have fun.

[Cloud802]

It's ok to be shy, I was shy myself at first, until my girlfriend did it. I don't really think there's a guideline for it, so I'm extremely sorry, but you can do it I'm sure. Just experiament and you'll do fine.

[sweetheart230]

Well if you're kissing someone who's more experienced, I'd say follow their lead. People generally like to be kissed the way they kiss.

 

If you don't know, or they aren't experienced, I'd say just start slowly. Don't open your mouth too wide, don't use too much tongue. Just tease with your tongue a little, and then when you get more into it, find a rhythm.

 

Most importantly, just be in the moment. Don't think about it too much. Just enjoy yourself! I was terrified my first kiss would be awful, but it was fine. He didn't even know it was my first kiss and I knew absolutely nothing!

[FamousAmos]

lol, all you do is make like a "O" with your mouth, and your partner will do the same, then you just swirl, twirl, flick your tongue with his

[ShySoul]

 

The guide to kissing. In particular, you want this part:

 

French Kissing is the more erotic style of open mouthed kissing. It is in essense kissing that brings to mind parts of the full sex act, so thereforeeee is very arousing because of the mental images it causes. Either the guy or girl can do this. First, take your tongue and make slow, gentle circles around your partner's tongue. Go slowly at first, then more and more quickly. Then plunge your tongue down along your partner's tongue, sliding down it until your tongue is fully extended. Do that one or two times, then slowly slide your tongue back out and start with the gentle circling again.

 

Of course, once you get over the initial nervousness, you won't need a guide. It will come naturally. Just do what feels good. Don't think about it, go with your heart.

[1babylove]

Okay...of course all good advice. One thing that absolutely grosses me out is when there is too much saliva. Make you sure you swallow first. Then just relax, not forceful. Mold your mouth the theirs. and just enjoy!!! It'll take you breath away!

[Rawk-1]

Well i think i can help you with that. The real answer to your question is to do whatever feels good and satisfying. Dont be afraid to try new things. you might make some mistakes the first time, but thats a good thing. next time around you will be determined to do it right and out come will be all the more beneficial for you and your partner. there is nothing more excited about a woman down to get a little dirty. I Ganrauntee It!

[the yang to the worlds yin]

you can slide your tongue in and out( but not all the way out) a little, you can kind of tease them by flicking your tongue against theirs, to add a little spice you can part their lips with your tongue to lead them into the french kiss. just relax, experiment and please keep saliva to a minimum. ; )