In love with my bestfriends brother? Help

[DEVINAFERNANDEZ1607306437]

Me and my bestfriend have known each other for 8 years. When my best friend brother got out of jail, i never was attracted to him, after dating him for a couple of months i realized he was a really nice guy. Our relationship became allot serious, my bestfriend and i still remained close, we promised whatever happened between his brother and i would not mess up what we had. Well things changed with his brother and i he had been seen with different girls, and it of course it got back to me. Sooner than later i confronted him, he denied everything, all he had to do was sweet talk me for me to believe everything he was telling me was true. The same situation kept on happening over, and over again, me and my bestfriend became distant, i was so used in telling him what went on in my life, and all of the sudden i was not able to do as i did before. 1 year passed by and i have not spoken to his brother, however i am so in love with him, everyone knows too! I don't know if it's my pride, but i just can't call him after all he did, now on occasions i see females picking him up, and he ends up spending the night at their house, i know this because of my best friend, he doesn't know that I'm in love with him, but what can he do? I can't go one day without thinking about him, when i wake up in the morning he is the first thing that comes to my mind. What can i do, friends tell me he asks for me, but i just try to ignore. Please help, i really need it.

[mhonkieys]

it doesnt sound like you need him per se, but anyone. you are focusing your life on a man who has done wrong to you which points to other issues, i think you would do best to sit back a while and gain a sense of yourself and what you want, what are you goals in life?

 

what does he have that you want? sex? money? there are many nice guys, and most of them didnt go to jail. i think you have made a picture of this guy in your head that hasnt really been true to life. maybe you should be honest with yourself and think about what he means to you as aposed to what you mean to him. i cant say because i dont know you, but just from what it sounds like.. you are obsessed with a man who used you, and you are just asking to be abused again.

 

when you ask the devil who he is, he never answers "the devil"