p0ohb3ar Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 there is this boy who asked me out twice already but i said no...i dont like him but for some reson whenever im around him i get like really comfortable and we cuddle n i feel so close to him ... i also have dreams about him which is really bothering me ...b/c i can't get rid of them....i need help Link to comment
babybo0 Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 its probably a temporary crush try to focus on other guys ....or just go out with him Link to comment
smallworld Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 No judging, but if your don't like him and your dreams about him bother you, why are you cuddling with him? This is only going to confuse you (hence the troubling dreams) and him more isn't it? Link to comment
sparticuss Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 A few questions you need to answer. 1/ Why did you say no if you like him. 2/ Is he the only guy who makes you feel like this or do you just like snuggling up to nice guys. 3/ At your age are you still hung up that every last guy you date should be "for life". I'm thinking that you shouldn't actually have a boyfriend at all but should be dating or socialising with every last guy who looks promising. Link to comment
Markers Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 WHY are you cuddling with a guy who you don't like You're making that guy's life super super hard.. date him or get rid of him Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted November 27, 2005 Share Posted November 27, 2005 there is this boy who asked me out twice already but i said no...i dont like him but for some reson whenever im around him i get like really comfortable and we cuddle n i feel so close to him ... i also have dreams about him which is really bothering me ...b/c i can't get rid of them....i need help Okay, if he asked you out twice and you said no, but you are still cuddling with him and such then you are leading him on. This is why he asked you out twice even though you told him no already. You are giving him hope. Quit doing this unless you are willing to date him. If you aren't willing to go out with him then tell him clearly that you will not ever and that he needs to move on because it isn't fair to him that he is not meeting other girls because you keep giving him hope that it will work out. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 5, 2009 Share Posted January 5, 2009 stop with the relationship crap without the actual attachment. you are leading him on. you love the attention. poor guy. Link to comment
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