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Happy birthday

lol I just noticed that it is so old

I don't know if you believe in GOD or not...but I do not think that any one comes down here for no reason.....we all have a purpose. I do not agree with the BOB said at all...and that is fine we are all entitled to our own opinons. If you want to stay with your boy friend now then stay with him..If you want to be having sex then that is your choice really there is nothing any one can really do to stop you from doing that. Just make sure you think about what you are doing every little choice you make changes some thing else. If you are going to be having sex use birth control...talk to your Mom about it if you want some thing more then condom ( which do break some times). AS far as keeping your Baby My husband and I have been trying to have a baby and we can't. Adoptting is a hard and long prossess with out knowing some one who would give up their baby. I have an Aunt who also is having issues with having a child there are really alot of people who would love to be parents and for what ever reason can't. Some times known others unexplained. God designed Women to bear children it is what makes us so different from men it is our right and gift really. THink about it also there is some one inside you growing and souly depending on you to a make it through. Life is scary at times and 14 years old is very young. But love knows no age I am confident that you can and will love this child more then any one else could. Even if it means loving it enough to give it up. Adoption does not have to be a clossed thing really you can do an open ended adoption ( what my husband and I are looking into) it allsow you the chance to get to know the parents well you even pick them out. You'll be able to see the baby grow that way. You and the people you give the child to work everything out. The difference is they raise the child and provide perhaps what at this time in your life you can not. but your child grows up knowing who you are were you came from. Getting to see your parents and your family too. Perhaps even the father. you still get to be in his or her life not perhaps as you would want but some thing close. How much you see the child and how involved you are depends really it is something you work out with the people looking to adopt, my husband and I hope one day to find some one who wants to be really involved we want a child to us though were he or her comes from does not matter....ours by blood or not makes no difference. to me it is great when birth parents want to be a part of their kids lives. Open adoption is a good choice for any one even more so young adults like your self. It is healtheir for every one in the long run there are a lot of study on it. No matter what you do the choice is yours and I am no one to judge you. I ask that you would not kill some thing so percious and innocent as your own child. If all you do if carry the child to full term give birht and then give it up you have done more then a lot. You allowed that child a chance to grow and be some one to some one else and to dream, and dare to do great things. A chance I believe every one should have. in a way you would have shown a great act of mercy and love. You should tell your parents soon. You will start to show at some point but the stres you build from not tellng them is not good for you or baby that and you need to do to a doctor for check ups. They are also your Parents as you might one day soon be...there is a lot that goes along with it. they may be as you hink mad or upset but I think more hurt and worried for the two of you. Your Mother will understand more and faster then your father who I am sorry to say does not seem to care much more any way. I do not know though I am not him and I do not know him. As for the oy friend i would leave him simply for presuring you into some thing you do not seem to want to do fully. Also no father is better then a bad one. Good luck my e-mail is email removed I am here if you need some one

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