Echo Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 I am recovering from being dumped..and have been in NC for the better part of 2 months....been weak a 2 or 3 times and emailed...but nothing major. Anyway....the next stage is LETTING GO... completely. I am trying to do this in my heart, but how do you make your heart let someone go? I am trying to wish him the best in my heart and forget him. I am trying to lose all hope for us getting back together..but how do you tell your heart this? My head says ONE thing..my heart says another. I am listening to my head.... This is SOOOOO hard! Link to comment
RooferGirl23 Posted November 2, 2005 Share Posted November 2, 2005 TIME will let your heart let go. until then, keep listening to your head! Link to comment
John303 Posted November 3, 2005 Share Posted November 3, 2005 I agree. It's really hard to disconnect your heart from your brain. I am struggling with this myself after a little over two months post-breakup. Time is the only thing and it's hard to be patient but it's best to do so. Link to comment
want2b happy33 Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 I HAVE JUST FOUND OUT THAT MY HUSBAND IS A NARCISSIST I WAS WONDERING HOW COULD HE SAY HE LOVES ME WHEN HE COMPLETELY NEGLECTS ME AND MY FEELINGS!! 2 WEEKS AGO I WAS SO ANGRY AND BLOW IT OUT IN FRONT OF HIS DAD WHO WAS VISITING US AND I CALLED MY PARENTS TOO WHO LIVE ABROAD OVERSEAS HIS REACTION WAS NOT PLEASANT AND HE FELT HUMILIATED AND WE AREN'T TALKING SINCE AFTER READING A LOT ABOUT THIS PERSONALITY I AM SURE HE RELATES TO EVERY WORD SAID ABOUT NARCISSISM WE HAVE A LOVELY 2.5 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER HE STILL CARES FOR HER , AND I AM STILL LIVING WITH HIM BUT TOTALLY IGNORE HIM AND TEND TO MYSELF AND WELL BEING WHAT SHOULD I DO MORE , MY MARRIAGE IS OVER I GUESS:sad: Link to comment
need2bme Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 TIME will let your heart let go. until then, keep listening to your head! Amen. Time, my brother, time... Link to comment
want2b happy33 Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 how do i start a new thread? Link to comment
want2b happy33 Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 thanks manny_07 Link to comment
bythesea Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Letting go is the hardest part. Someone posted a link on this site not too long ago, and Ill paste it in this thread. It's a sermon by a Christian minister, and the topic is "Letting Go". Whatever your faith, the message in this sermon is wise and relevant. For those who believe in God or a higher power, it's helpful to know that God (or your higher power) has your back link removed Link to comment
thinkstoohard Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Letting go is the hardest part. Someone posted a link on this site not too long ago, and Ill paste it in this thread. It's a sermon by a Christian minister, and the topic is "Letting Go". Whatever your faith, the message in this sermon is wise and relevant. For those who believe in God or a higher power, it's helpful to know that God (or your higher power) has your back link removed BTS, I am listening right now and this is AMAZING!! Link to comment
Mysterygirl Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 I am recovering from being dumped..and have been in NC for the better part of 2 months....been weak a 2 or 3 times and emailed...but nothing major. Anyway....the next stage is LETTING GO... completely. I am trying to do this in my heart, but how do you make your heart let someone go? I am trying to wish him the best in my heart and forget him. I am trying to lose all hope for us getting back together..but how do you tell your heart this? My head says ONE thing..my heart says another. I am listening to my head.... This is SOOOOO hard! Time heals all wounds my dear. Keep yourself busy, get into a hobby or a sport .. find your passion and soon enough you won't even remember his name ... Use this time to get to know You ... this way your a better person for when the next guy comes along .. When you feel yourself thinking about him, Stop. Do something, change your thinking .. whatever it takes... Keep telling your self - Your Mind is Stronger then Your Heart Link to comment
bythesea Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 I thought it was amazing too, Bildit...which is why I re-posted it On my really bad days I listen to it, and it gives me strength. Sometimes you just have to HEAR the message aloud...LET THEM GO! Link to comment
thinkstoohard Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 I thought it was amazing too, Bildit...which is why I re-posted it On my really bad days I listen to it, and it gives me strength. Sometimes you just have to HEAR the message aloud...LET THEM GO! Get off the MISERY-GO-ROUND! Link to comment
bluestar Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 I am recovering from being dumped..and have been in NC for the better part of 2 months....been weak a 2 or 3 times and emailed...but nothing major. Anyway....the next stage is LETTING GO... completely. I am trying to do this in my heart, but how do you make your heart let someone go? I am trying to wish him the best in my heart and forget him. I am trying to lose all hope for us getting back together..but how do you tell your heart this? My head says ONE thing..my heart says another. I am listening to my head.... This is SOOOOO hard! It all depends on the terms and circumstances on which the break up happened......... Link to comment
EmotionalCreature Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Sleep is very important. If you don't get good healthy sleep, even when you are happy, it will make the rest of the next day (even the day after) tiring and have effects on your emotion and judgment. Some probably say it's hard or even impossible to sleep, trust me, healthy good sleep makes a whole world of difference, to YOU. Link to comment
bluestar Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 Get off the MISERY-GO-ROUND! That recording is priceless! Lets get off the misery go round! Link to comment
Lilly26 Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 Keep listening to the link if needed. I truly enjoyed it not to mention shed some tears too Link to comment
bluestar Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 It all depends on the terms and circumstances on which the break up happened......... Want to share? Link to comment
Doramara Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 Ok. Some silly advice perhaps, but making a Good Riddance-list can help some. Compile a list of all the things that are negative about him, also the really silly things, like how the way he eats youghurt always made you twitch, how bad his breath smells after a night on the town, or, how strange he looks when he's cumming. Just keep writing his negatives, and then whenever you start missing him, just pull out the list. Helps for me most of the time. Link to comment
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