maybemaybenot Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 I have known this girl for years and it has only been this l;ast year that i relized how much i care about her. She drives me crazy when hang out all the time and she tells me she only wants to be friends but it feels like she wants more and so scared of loosing her as a friend i dont know what to do. She knows how i feel about her and she tells me tonight she has be thinking alot about us i dont know what to do. I just i wish i knew what to do Link to comment
metallicachica247 Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 are you sure it actually feels like she wants more and your not just molding it to that? i think that you should just keep going as regular friends and occasionally reach for her hand or something "casual" who knows? it may work out for you... Link to comment
Joe19999 Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 What do you think of my solution... Goes something like this... You really like/love/care/ whateever... but I need to get over you... so I can't see you for a while. Then if she really really wants to be more than good friends, then maybe she will be driven to make a strong decision. Link to comment
metallicachica247 Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 joe's idea is good too... lol Link to comment
heloladies21 Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 Dude, let her know to get with the program or else she gets cut off. And then follow through. You need to do this so you can either get with this chick, or move on and free up your time/emotions to go find someone else. You've been patient enough, time for the payoff pitch. Link to comment
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