I don't think I am in love with this man

[Willow in the breeze1607306437]

I have been struggling for 14 months now to assess my relationship. I am dating a great man. I think that I am quite lucky to have found him and date him. He is what I am looking for in a significant other. We have a good time together when we go out, we talk on the phone every night, we are together every weekend from Friday to Sunday, and we laugh a lot.

 

With all of this, I don't think I am in love with him. I cannot understand why, I have racked my brain trying to figure out what is wrong w. me.

 

I have been in love before so I know what it feels like. I am 27 yrs old. I have only loved one person in my whole life and I have never felt like that about anyone since him.

 

Do I give this more time or am I with the wrong man? He deserves to be loved to the fullest extent possible. I feel like I am lying to him and leading him on. I admit that I say "I love you" to him and I sincerely thought I felt it but it wasn't really there.

 

I am confused and I don't know how to proceed.

 

HELP!!!!!!!!!!

[Tana]

Would you do anything for this person, forgive them when they hurt you, share all your secrets with them? Accept them the way they are? If so, I think that's true love. Maybe the two of you could seek pre-marital counseling? Good luck to you, I feel your pain.

[Napoleon Bonaparte]

If you don't love him at this point it doesn't mean you never will, but what it does mean is that you are wasting his time since you don't currently love him. Let him go, maybe some day, but not now. Whatever your decision, be honest and never again say I love you unless you are sure.