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Napoleon Bonaparte

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  1. LIL THAT IS Narcacistic and such social programing. obviously not every culture has thought so and certainly there are more gay men than females ugh female arrogance about their bodies makes me sick
  2. Dj you get that at bars and clubs too. I have never used myspace and am not quite sure what it is. But I have no pride when it comes to dating and getting what I want.
  3. dj you got me curious. What do you have against hook ups on myspace?
  4. Beth by even asking your fiance if you could sleep with another person you would be asking extremely disloyal and insensitive hence guapa's advice was extremely destructive. I would dump you in a heat beat if I was engaged to you and you asked me if you could sleep with somebody else to see what it is like.
  5. This is a serious problem in our society surrounding women. People don't like them to be in anyway responsible for how their comments and actions might make things worse. No you didn't ask for it. But your behavior did exacerbate the situation. Since we don't live in a perfect world what you say can and does make situations worse especially where a pathetic nut job stalker is concerned. Yes you don't deserve what happened but the people here are missing the point. What was said could obviously be taken as contemptuous especially in a highly sensitive situation. So you need to be more cautious with your words next time.
  6. Thank you to those who have actually helped me. Beth someone helped you besides me? One told you you are gay. One told you to cheat One told you to dig shemales.
  7. Why do both of you ladies assume he was generalizing about treating them like a doormat? He didn't say that.
  8. Beth you're bi curious which is very common and nothing to worry about. Even if you are/were bi sexual you still prefer men overall so I don't think you need to worry about suddenly liking chicks more than men when you are with this guy. There are lesbians who are genetically lesbian and there are lesbians who become lesbians either out of an emotional attraction to a woman or because they reject men due to bad experiences, and there are bi sexuals. You I would put in the bi curious category and part of the reason why you aren't turned on by other men I think might be because having an emotional connection to your mate is very important to you. Whether or not I am wrong, what I am confident of is that you are perfectly normal and healthy. (If you were to have sex with a woman while with this guy or ask him if you could have sex with a woman however it would be risking more than you really want to risk for very little gain. You might as well be opening up pandora's box for your curiosity. Sometimes people should just be happy for the great things they have. And your fiancee seems like a decent guy which is good. Some fantasies should remain just that, fantasy.)
  9. Club I think we both know his behavior is pathetic and inexcusable and downright creepy. And ignore him, don't talk to him at all or he will continue to harass you. I am just pointing out that to minimize bad situations with anybody be it a crazy stalker, a friend or even a boyfriend it is best to becareful what you tell them when they are interested and you for whatever reasons at that moment or ever are not.
  10. You might be bi sexual, you are probably more likely bi curious. Something tells me you are gonna say you aren't attracted to the male body but that is still my answer.
  11. Beth I wasnt really serious about the turning lesbian bit. I was trying to direct the discussion in a very specific direction subtley. I don't think you are a lesbian, or even really bi sexual. Are you attracted to penis at all? The male body?
  12. Club the guy was obviously insecure and upset you dont REALLY tell him the truth jesus, did you think he wouldn't be upset by the word cousin? That is all he needed to hear. I am not excusing his behavior. I am suggesting you may had made a bad situation worse by being cold or thoughtless
  13. Club the guys a nut case obviously but that aside it was pretty nasty to say his kiss reminded you of his cousin. You might as well have directly insitgated.
  14. Alot of chicks masterbate to chicks with guys cuz they think society finds it hot and it makes them feel reassured about their own attractiveness. I say just become gay beth. Lose the boyfriend and go full fledged lesbian.
  15. Beth homosexuality is genetic. With you it may by psychological or genetic since society persuades women to think lesbianism is sexy. Either you or bisexual or if you honestly prefer a womans body, maybe you should leave him and go full lesbian.
  16. gra[a do me a favor and don't tell me how to think. And yes there is such thing as right or wrong. If a guy is getting off or ambivalent about his gal pal sleeping with somebody else he is probably pretty sleezy. That being said swingers and people who share their mates tend to eventually get jealous or resentful. I have seen it a million times.
  17. If you have a one night stand with a woman and you are with yur fiancee there is definitely something wrong with it. That being said, it sounds like female narcacism. And the fact that guys like lesbianism makes you feel sexy when you are masterbating to chicks
  18. I open the door for men and women as a act of courtesy. If a woman does't like it it means A) She is a harpy and not the type i'd want a relationship with. B) It lets me know who to slam the door on in a polar opposite extreme the next time I see her. My biggest pet peeves are women who get angry when you don't open the door for them like you are some kind of neaderthal just because you didn't see them coming. Those types disgust me.
  19. Nice guys finish last. That saying makes me want to puke. Whiners finish last. People who let other people walk all over them finish last. I don't advocate being a jerk but you guys really need to compete more and worry about getting laid and more confident and the rest will take care of itself. Women appreciate honesty overall more than they appreciate somebody who is always nice and doesn't bite, and knows what they want. I fera you "supposedly nice guys" are gonna settle for some self centered shrew and wrap yourself around her finger when you finally do have sex. And stay away from any chick who mentions the words financial security and relationship in the same sentence. T hat's an even bigger turn off than reeking vagina.
  20. When Lisc mentions financial security she is suggesting their love is conditional upon you resourcing them with money. The scientific term for those types of women are bacteria or parasites. The slang for them is gold diggers. Watch out for them. The other thing you need to think about when listening to her argument is that some men get 5 times as many women and will often have two at once where as the less competitive get none. It is a vicious hard world but you gotta be competitive. And you gotta be competitive while rooting through bacteria and emotional abusers. That means just worry about getting laid with a chick you are attracted to, the rest will eventually take care of its own.
  21. I don't mind rejection. It's a matter of opportunity. You aren't gonna meet somebody just walking up to em on the street her. I also don't have pride when it comes to dating. Anything's game as long as we click and they were born a woman and don't want me to support their coke habits(which is why you gotta becareful at them village clubs)
  22. If you are thirty and have never had a girlfriend you probably should be unhappy. It would be pretty lonely and missing out to never have had a girlfriend by that point. Sure being happy single is nice but ALWAYS being single is a different story. If nothing else you should be having some flings by that point. Anyway, quit worrying. I confess I have contempt for most females (and yeah i have contempt for men too but I don't date them) however there are good ones out there. You figure half of everybody gets divorced, many don't make it past engagement and the great thing about being a man is it is the norm to date much younger (not married yet) women. Sure you gotta be proactive about it. Sure you gotta shuffle through the bad worthless ones to get to the gold, but they are there and a plenty. Just make friends with a lot and take advantage if they break up (while watching out for rebounds), or even better -- network with your woman friends girlfriends. Furthermore, the worst problem with men on this website is they are afraid of their sexuality. You don't have to be in a relationship with every woman you sleep with. Casual sex is fine. Dating sites is great. Just be honest about what you want or how far you are willing to go. I live in New York City where meeting anybody is hard if you didn't grow up here. Every woman I come accross is taken just about. Yeah it is VERY frustrating. But whatever happens happens. I In the meantime I got porn, which is cheaper than a date anyway.
  23. Here's a morbid truth for everybody in their early and mid twenties. You probably haven't achieved your gratness hapiness yet, but even more unlike,y you haven't felt your worst pain yet either.
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