Riles84 Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 Ok I got a question for you all. What does it mean if an ex girlfriend of a year doesnt get rid of your stuff .. such as shirts, gifts, and emails. I noticed that she has kept a lot of stuff that was once mine .. but the thing i really dont understand is why she has still kept all my emails i sent her when we were going out .. I deleted all of mine. I should mention she broke up wiht me. Watcah guys think of this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkblue Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 Why did she break up with you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilverManic Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 I still have a book and a comic strip of my ex's. I also kept photographs and some clothes from a previous relationship. I don't know about emails, maybe she's harbouring feelings of regret or maybe she doesn't empty her inbox that much? I wouldn't really look into the clothes/gifts side of things because I kept things like that too. It doesn't mean I have feelings for that person. I have a new wonderful and caring boyfriend and I would never do anything to hurt him. If he asked me to get rid of these things I would bin them. Take my opinion as you will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riles84 Posted September 27, 2005 Author Share Posted September 27, 2005 Cant really say .. shes had a bad rep about stuff like this before.. She breaks up with guys i think not really knowign why . .and gets into new relationships right away. I was her longest relationship by far though .. 2 years. I honestly think shes got commitment phobia but cant tell you for sure why she broke up with me. Hse said her feeligns jsut changed we broke up a year ago though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riles84 Posted September 27, 2005 Author Share Posted September 27, 2005 Ya i understand about the the clothes and othre things . .but the emails i find strange cause there not in the inbox there in a separate created folder just for them .. she really is saving them just not emptying her inbox Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riles84 Posted September 27, 2005 Author Share Posted September 27, 2005 think thats weird? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RayKay Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 Sometimes people just like to keep things that were part of their life. Some do better burning it all, some like to store it away. Some keep stuff without even realizing it (I am sure I have many emails from an ex in a folder I had from when we were together in my email, I don't ever look at them or anything like that, I just don't bother with them either way, so don't delete them either). I don't know, everyone is different, but really, it's just stuff. What were you hoping it would mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkblue Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 I'm not sure why she kept them. It could be regret, she could still have feelings for you - you just don't know. thereforeeee: don't let it bother you - don't think about it and move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riles84 Posted September 27, 2005 Author Share Posted September 27, 2005 I have no reason for wondering excpet wondering . .I dont think i wanan get back with her if i had the cahcne . .cause i know deep down shes bad for me. I guess i sill ahve a bit of feeligns for her .. not too sure though. Just wodnering thats all. Seemed weird to em though that shed keep all my emails and shes gone out with 2 other guys and only kept 2 emails form them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RayKay Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 I have no reason for wondering excpet wondering . .I dont think i wanan get back with her if i had the cahcne . .cause i know deep down shes bad for me. I guess i sill ahve a bit of feeligns for her .. not too sure though. Just wodnering thats all. Seemed weird to em though that shed keep all my emails and shes gone out with 2 other guys and only kept 2 emails form them Curious how you know exactly what she has kept or not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riles84 Posted September 27, 2005 Author Share Posted September 27, 2005 I forwarded a joke email to a bunch of people and realized i sent it to her as well and knowign her email passwrod form when we were together i went in and deleted it and saw a fodler called boys and curiosity got the better of me . .didnt read anythign just saw all my emails. Wouldnt invade her privacy like that .. even though technically i gues u could say i did Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RayKay Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 I forwarded a joke email to a bunch of people and realized i sent it to her as well and knowign her email passwrod form when we were together i went in and deleted it and saw a fodler called boys and curiosity got the better of me . .didnt read anythign just saw all my emails. Wouldnt invade her privacy like that .. even though technically i gues u could say i did AGH! DON'T EVER DO THAT AGAIN....read them or not, you are right, it is an invasion of privacy to go into someone else's email without their knowledge/permission. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riles84 Posted September 27, 2005 Author Share Posted September 27, 2005 didnt ask you on your opinion on me .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hockeyboy Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 I forwarded a joke email to a bunch of people and realized i sent it to her as well and knowign her email passwrod form when we were together i went in and deleted it and saw a fodler called boys and curiosity got the better of me . .didnt read anythign just saw all my emails. Wouldnt invade her privacy like that .. even though technically i gues u could say i did AGH! DON'T EVER DO THAT AGAIN....read them or not, you are right, it is an invasion of privacy to go into someone else's email without their knowledge/permission. Isn't it illegal too? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RayKay Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 didnt ask you on your opinion on me .. I did not give an opinion on YOU, I gave one on your actions. Very different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riles84 Posted September 27, 2005 Author Share Posted September 27, 2005 no .. maybe un ethical but theres no law .. I didnt hack into it she told me the password .. and didnt tell me to not go in it anymore thereforeeee under the law i still have permission But enough ... this isnt the topic please stick to the topic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkblue Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 no .. maybe un ethical but theres no law .. I didnt hack into it she told me the password .. and didnt tell me to not go in it anymore thereforeeee under the law i still have permission But enough ... this isnt the topic please stick to the topic LOL - It must have changed; I always thought ignorance was bliss. Apparently it's now, arrogance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riles84 Posted September 27, 2005 Author Share Posted September 27, 2005 k i come onto this forum for advice and get attacked .. i didnt post to get attacked .. and its notlike youv all never done anythign that wasnt right .. dont be hypocryts .. forget it i dont want your opinions or advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkblue Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 Fair enough, but I wasn't 'attacking' you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avman Posted September 27, 2005 Share Posted September 27, 2005 This thread locked for flaming Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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