My recent ex doesn’t want our baby anymore but i can’t seem to find the courage to get an abortion

[Zilkas98]

2 hours ago, MissCanuck said:

I'm sorry, OP. 

I think you need to start planning to raise this child on your own. He clearly doesn't want to be part of this. 

How old are you both? Does he work? 

He works .. i work two jobs I’m 25 he’s 23

[smackie9]

Go to a family planning clinic and get a health check. They offer counseling and recourses to help with the baby. You will be needing information on proper diet, supplements, etc to keep you and baby healthy. 

I think he's very scared, and TBH there is a good chance he will resurface and want to be a part of this baby's life. Give him time to think. 

Remember having a baby shower brings those who care about you together to help out not only with gifts but support. It will work out you will see. 

[Batya33]

1 hour ago, smackie9 said:

Remember having a baby shower brings those who care about you together to help out not only with gifts but support. It will work out you will see. 

Yes- for sure if your family offers to organize one for you and you are comfortable with it that also could be a great way for you to connect with people.