To all of you out there enforcing the no contact rule....

[pattysky]

Very True......

 

Hi everyone,

I found this and I read it everytime I feel like contacting my ex...It really helps, please read it and good luck continuing NC!

 

 

 

There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this - when people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The Bible said that, "they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us."

 

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can' t get super glue and you can't make them stay. Let them go. And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when peoples part in your story is over so that you don t keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of goodbye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in goodbye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know what ever God means for me to have he'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go.

 

 

pattysky

[sonjam]

Thanks Pattysky, this is very true, albeit sometimes hard to see for the people in NC.

[igor512]

I would tattoo that to my phone, but there are too many words. Bugger.

[kungfumaster]

That ones a keeper pattysky. Thanks.

[pattysky]

Your welcome everyone and to Sonjam, I just loved that gorilla quote! It was hilarious. Thanks for the laugh.

 

 

 

pattysky

[sonjam]

Hey thanks!