StillLovinStacy403 Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 So me and my girlfriend broke up cause she was spending alot of time with this other guy, and since we live in separate towns i would never know if she did anything with him. She has been tottaly honest with me about everything i have aked her, and now i want her back, should i try and get back with her and what should i say to her to hopefully have her forgive me? Link to comment
heloladies21 Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 You need to give more details of why you broke up, who dumped who, what's up with this other guy etc. That's the only way we can give you good advice. Link to comment
StillLovinStacy403 Posted May 17, 2005 Author Share Posted May 17, 2005 i broke up with her and told her that we need to rethink this all, shes been hanging out with him for about 5 days and he slept over her frineds house while she was there and i guess they just cuddled and slept there nothing more but they have been hanging out alot lately, and i guess its cause we are far away, but we were engaged and it was serious not just kidding around...i just really dont know what to do. idnk if this is a test cause she pushes me to see if i will get mad im wondering what if this is a test or if she's actually serious Link to comment
lady star Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 wow, this is a tough one...in my opinion, if i was engaged to my boyfriend i wouldn't be cuddling with another guy. i'm not saying that she's not alowed to have guy friends but there are just some things that should remain inside the relationship. i mean, sure cuddling can sound very innocent and all but thats something that i would only do with my boyfriend , its one of those things that can mean so many different things...its really tough to call though, i guess it all depends on the friendship that she has with this guy and how much the two of you can trust each other... good luck! and i truly hope you guys work things out because it sounds like you really love her. Link to comment
sidhat Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 Dude, I had a same situation and I know she was with some1,, and when i found out that she is intressted in some1 and trying to dump me ,, so i changed my attitude toards her and make her more comforatble with her space to enjoy with him bcoz I already decided that she is not the one for me no doubt i loved her alot but miss commitment is not tolerated.. So now you have to think from your brain..be her victim but in the sense that you have to be let yourself down that way i did myself near my ex fiance.. and keep loving her and make her feel secure and comfortable with me and never repeated the past and 1 night I finally got sucesss to let her down and finally she was towards me more physical then the other guy.. and then I told her that my game and told her that the way you played with me and now i played with you.. and leave her crying.. So its up to you.. Revenge or Forget. Once a girl mis commit then you cannot do anything to het her back .. there is only way to get her back is if she keep stay single after breakup or dumping.. You have your own choice.. Good luck.. Link to comment
heloladies21 Posted May 17, 2005 Share Posted May 17, 2005 Either if it's a test or serious it's not good! Either way you need to drop her cause you've been disrespected and there's no going back once it's gotten to that point. Link to comment
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