Too much to ask?

[RedDress]

I may be wrong... but I think you were kind of hoping that he might protest? Say something along the lines of “no, I WAS interested, i just got really busy” or something like that?

 

Unfortunately, people rarely respond the way that we want them to.

 

The flakiness, unfortunately, was because he lost interest. Since he lost romantic interest, I agree with the others in that there was no good response to your text. It was basically breaking up with him again a 2nd time. I agree that his silence was appropriate.

 

I think you should refocus on other men. Try online dating! Find someone who wants to put as much effort in as you do. They are out there... just have to find them! (... and that’s half the fun sometimes!)