i dont kno wat to do!!

[silliass66]

okk...big story..my b/f recently broke up w/ me bcuz im a cheater

i was w/ felipe for 2 yrs before meetin emmanuel and wen i broke up w/ felipe i had to get over him quick so i decided to talk to emmanuel and he understood that i had just got out of a serious relationship but he still wanted to talk to me so we did and eventually went out..me and emmnanuel were together for a year 1/2.. for a whole year i cheated on him with felipe and for a whole year he would get back w/ me because everytime i would say i was gonna change but i didnt.. now he has broken up w/ me for real and theres nothin i can do or say to get him back.. and its hurtin me soo bad... but the thing is i havent messed up in 6 months he has also met a girl but he says nothin is goin on between them and i believe him because i kno he doesnt want a realionship + shes got a serious b/f but thats not it he just says that ive pushed him to his limits and he cant take it anymore and also that hes "lost it for me" and he doesnt feel the same way. wat can i do to get him back..were about to graduate in a month and im doin real bad..i cant sleep, eat, nothin unless i get back w/ him i wont be fine.. he says if its meant to be well be back in the future were both goin to the same college but im afraid he might fall for sum1 else so im tryin to keep him by my side but everytime im w/ him it hurts to not be able to kiss or hug him and if i try he pushes me back..if anyone is goin through this or went through sumthin similar please help me out...thanx

[annie24]

oh honey - there's nothing you can do to get either of them back. You said it yourself, you're a cheater. They're both sick of it. Now from your story, I can't tell if you want to be with F or with E, but either way, I think you should leave them both alone.

 

I think you should examine your actions and try to figure out why you were cheating on your last boyfriend for so long. You should do some soul-searching.

 

Neither has any reason to trust you. I think you should move on. Sorry.

[DN]

Your problem is that you have destroyed his trust in you. The only possible way you can get him back is to give him time to get past the hurt.

 

Tell him that you realise you have to show him that you mean what you say, that you respect his need for time away and that you will not see anyone else in the meantime. Let him specify a time it he will and it should be months not weeks.

 

This is risky because he may move on anyway, deciding he never will be able to trust you. But IMO it is your only hope.

[Turboz]

Sorry but did you say you want your cake and to eat it?

 

Look you've openly admitted that your a cheater. You have done wrong. People that do wrong things don't get forgiven easily.

 

You say you want him back.

 

Would you take you back? - Seriously would you?

 

Seems to me that you need to grow up and be a little more mature. Stop sleeping around and get a grip of yourself.

 

-Turboz

[Hope75]

I'm sorry but you put yourself here. I'm afraid the damage may be too great to salvage the relationship. You betrayed both mens trust and I don't blame them for leaving.

 

What you can do constructively here is to take this as a lesson that when you agree to be in a relationship you need to be faithful to that person and respect fidelity.

 

I suggest spending some time on your own to think long and hard about what you really want