hes datinh my cousin

[candigurl55]

I've liked this guy all semester and he liked me too. THe problem is i have a boyfriend that ive been with for 8 months. I decided to stay with my boyfriend. I was out of school sick for a week and to make a long story short now hes dating my cousin. Its not a REALLY big deal but deep down its kinda hurts. They werent even friends until the week i was out and it kind of upsets me. does anyone know how to get over it.

[someguy69]

If you decided to stay with your boyfriend, then why are you pining away over another man?

 

On top of that... why were you considering a relationship with someone else if you already had a boyfriend?

[candigurl55]

i was going to break up with him for this other guy

[lady00]

My only advice is to think about why you're with your bf...do you really want to be with him or have you just gotten used to having him there. If you were ready to leave him for another guy, what kept you from doing so? Was it that your bf was comfortable and that you have been together for a while or that you genuinly still liked him a lot?