blazer84 Posted January 23, 2018 Share Posted January 23, 2018 Good afternoon. Never did I think the day would come, when I would be asking a bunch of strangers for advice...but here goes! I was in an on-off relationship for 4 years, which was very messy at times and left me kind of not caring at all about meeting a new woman, and simply just being negative to the idea. So it was a little bit to my surprise when I started working at a new job, and I met this girl that I instantly clicked with. We work on opposite shifts, but sometimes we get a couple of hours together, and we usually talk a lot during our time together. We had been flirting for some while which ended up in us meeting for a beer last friday, where we got kind of drunk. She told me that she had liked me for some time now, and that she was very into me, and I also did the same. We ended sleeping together that night. So I decided on the Sunday to do the right thing and asking her out on a date, which she replied yes to and suggested the day. So I am supposed to be going on a date with her next saturday, but since I asked we have not talked a lot on facebook or social media, and not had a shift together. Now am I going crazy to think that maybe she is getting cold feet, or maybe she just doesn´t want to spend all of her time on facebook talking, and so on. Maybe she is just taking it slow, because we work together, and are going out on a date? I usually wouldn´t think like this, but it´s been 4 years since I was dating so I feel a bit lost at the moment... Hope someone can answer this... Thanks for your time. Link to comment
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