MarahVilla Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 I just recently came back to this site and was looking through all my threads. Man was I in a really screwed up place. Even after all the advice I was given I continued my relationship with this man that caused me so much agony and despair for another year (thats 3 all together for those keeping track at home) I gave him every single piece of me and to make things worse, he had been cheating on me the ENTIRE time. He gaslighted me, manipulated me, broke me, destroyed my self esteem. I hit rock bottom. But now 6 months after completely cutting him off cold turkey i can wholeheartedly say that i have made a complete 180. I am learning to love myself again and put myself first. Im doing things i love to do. Im distancing myself from everything and everyone thats toxic. And after a LONG LONG time i am finally happy again...legit happy. Not the "fake it till you make it" kind. For anyone that is still in despair, please be kind to yourself. TIME REALLY DOES HEAL and it will get better. love and hugs to all ❤ Link to comment
Keyman Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 *HIGH FIVE* It's a common story for many people, they seek help, then push on the same as before as it is often too much to make the change or they have been so invested in it they do not wish to leave it if there is still hope. Keep pushing on and stay happy. Link to comment
Carus Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 TIME REALLY DOES HEAL and it will get better I guess I'll take your word for it... Thanks for posting. So sorry you went through that but very glad you have arrived where you are* Carus* Link to comment
MarahVilla Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 I wish I could go back in time and knock some sense into myself, but am also thankful for that experience. Thank you for your words and have a blessed Wednesday! Link to comment
cristal Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Just what I needed to hear today! Thanks for coming back and telling us your story. Link to comment
hawk2347 Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 I struggle everyday and night I hope I can get where you are Link to comment
Piaresssss Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Sucks that you went through it but what an upliffting end. Needed to read that it does get better. You just have to let it happen Link to comment
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