LLLou Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 I don't know what is wrong with me. I met a wonderful man. Some months into the relationship, things started going south. Yeah, he cheated. But of course, after that, I did too. I maintained a friendship with one of my former male friends. This mad the current man in my life very jealous. I promised I wouldn't see this person again, yet I did. Nothing happened between us physically but I think I became emotionally attached to this other person. After 1+ years of doing everything in my power to screw this relationship up, I want to keep it. I realized how much I love this man. I've been doing everything in my power to convince him that I am a changed person. I know the trust thing is an issue. And here's the really sad part - I am not a young woman - nearly 63. But more than anything I want to prove to this man that I am worthy of being trusted again. I'm really at a loss. He says we are broken. I want to fix. Any great ideas of what I can do would be appreciated. Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissCanuck Posted January 14, 2018 Share Posted January 14, 2018 Some months into the relationship, things started going south. Yeah, he cheated. How does this line up with being a good, wonderful man? I don't know about you, but my definition of wonderful does not include infidelity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hollyj Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 Yeah. He also cheated. There is a reason why you kept the other guy around - not excusing - you two don't work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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