SadSadgirl Posted December 19, 2017 Share Posted December 19, 2017 In our generation, social media plays a big role in connectivity, socializing, and relationships. Many people use social media as a guideline to let people know what their life is like. After my breakup, I️ was not hesitant to unfollow my ex, and not interact with him via social media. But, he deemed it necessary to like my posts and even follow me on multiple platforms. Why? The mind of a dumpee is constantly at a whirlwind, interpreting everything their ex does in their head as if it were a mathematical equation. Please stop doing this, it will not help you. It is very unlikely that a dumper will like your posts as a way of saying “I️ miss you”. I️ have dumped people before, and when I️ like their posts, it means I️ just like what they’ve posted. Why does your ex view your Snapchat story? Because they are curious. Curiosity doesn’t equal a want to reconcile, they probably just wanna see what you’re doing. Also, your story was at the top of the list so they’re bound to view it. Why does your ex like your selfies? They think you look good. Congrats! But this doesn’t equate to missing you and wanting to reconcile at all. It just means they think you look nice. Why did my ex follow me? This is stranger territory. After my ex broke up with me, I️ blocked and then unblocked him so it made him unfollow me by force. A month later, he followed me again which I️ did the block-unblock method again. There could be many reasons why an ex (especially a dumper) followed you randomly. 1. They want you to know they still exist (Hey, did you forget about me yet?) 2. They want to mess with you (If I️ follow them, I️ know they will think about it and constantly ask why) 3. They are lonely and want attention, yikes 4. They want to be in your life, but platonically (Indifference) 5. They want you back but don’t know how to approach it Why does my ex keeps messaging me about stupid things? Because you let them, and they know you will reply. Tell them you don’t want to talk to them, and that you wish them the best. These are called BREADCRUMBS, which is basically testing the waters to see if you’ll succumb to them again. Find your worth and don’t reply. This will make them ponder, trust me. Link to comment
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