Heartconfused Posted December 18, 2017 Share Posted December 18, 2017 So this guy decided to shoot his shot after we had been mutuals on social media for while. The two of us went to highschool together, but we never really talked until he transferred to my college. I didn't know if i liked him, but I gave him a chance. We hung out a few times, studying, getting casual dinner, and one time even going back to my place and playing around a bit. He expressed that he liked me and wanted to take me on a real date once his car was fixed and school calmed down a bit. I told him I liked that, and I let my walls down. He did too. I thought we were getting somewhere. Four days later, we hang out again at my place, and he tells me he's been thinking and that he doesn't know if he's ready for a relationship. He said he probably just wants something casual and would like to hook up. I'm completely shocked. He told me he hasn't been able to connect with anyone, that he's busy, and that he knows there are plenty of guys who would fall over themselves to date me. I ask him about going on the date, and he says it won't happen anymore. I guess my question is this: why did he change his mind out of the blue, and why would he reach out to me if deep down he couldn't do a relationship? I feel blindsided and hurt because now I've started to like him and he just wants something physical. Did I do something wrong? Did I go too fast sexually? Link to comment
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