Nips927 Posted November 24, 2017 Share Posted November 24, 2017 reasons. She has expressed interest in sleeping with me, says she still loves me and misses me alot. she put me in no contact on monday morning, tuesday was a hard day. by wednesday afternoon she text me asking me if i would take the dog she adotped because she could no longer care for it(lie) she went thru in the last 5 days and liked every picture on my instagram from the last month and when i asked her she said because she got locked out of her other accounts and was bored, not even 10mins before she posted something on one of her non private account(lie). we had a converstation either saturday night or sunday night about cuddling and she was house sitting and said something like if this was my house id let you come over and we could cuddle. Her new gf(exgf is bi) has no idea that me and my ex have been talking for the last month, her gf also knows that my ex still has strong feelings for me. Her gf lives in another state, my ex is with her gf currently for thanksgiving and is with our dog which on her way back here will be dropping the dog off into my care. My ex has talked about moving to another state to be with her gf, i got curious and asked a close friend if my ex mentioned anything to her about moving my ex has not. My ex has expressed interest in getting back together like this "im not moving for a couple months and anything can happen between me and my gf where i dont go or anything can happen between me and you". My ex got pissed off with me because i wanted to work thanksgiving(america) and my ex said something like "i wanted you to spend more time with your family this break-up". She watches my snapchats and my instagram but when she is with her gf she does everything in secret. i let her stay on my snapchat only for communication if need be(she changed her number didnt say anything to me for about 3 weeks then called me from her new number day) Im an ALPHA I have done nothing to provoke anything above mention. What my ex doesnt understand is i have taken the step back approach and let everything play out from a distance, I think she is going to use giving me the dog as an excuse to come see me or check up on me or come over for sex. Link to comment
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