Zehr21 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 Hey everyone, My gf about 2 weeks ago said she wanted a break because she feels as though she has lost herself. Anyway things were going really well and we were pretty much back together. Though the last couple of days she keeps saying things that make me wonder if she wants to be with me or see other people. Like she originally asked me about going to her Christmas party if she was going to go, then said to me that she has decided to go with her girl friends from work and make it a girls night. Which I thought was great! But she kept telling me it time and time again, which was innoying then after she told me that almost ten times she said to me, plus I don't want to go with you cause that would just be awkward. But the Friday before her party I am taking her to a fancy black tie event and introducing her to my work colleagues, and clients, and she has nothing against that and doesn't think it would be awkward. Then last night I told her that one of my clients asked me out on a date which I thought was sweet of her but have no interest in her though my gf told me to go, even after I told her I have zero interest she kept saying to go that she was ok with that and that I need to make sure I want to be with her. Which I told her I would never do that and would never be with a partner that did that either and left it at that. Then later that night I mentioned to her that I thought that was a little odd and she said that she doesn't want a relationship right now. Cause she can't handle it so I asked her if she wanted a break then said she just wanted to date each other, though we live in the same house so I dont see the big difference between dating and a break. An how dating would help her find herself. So we went back and forth about dating, exclusive dating, then break, then repeat. Then she said she didn't want a title. Eventually decided break again but only to see eachother. This morning she mentioned to me about a 3 week europe trip we have planned, in about a month. And asked me if I still wanted to go, and I did say to her yes but I want to have this more figured out by then, if not I don't want to go, and be given and false hope I even told her I would still pay my half either way. And that pissed her off! So now she is innoyed and so am I, to the point that I am just getting so sick and tired of it but I want her I my life and have been with her for almost ten years! So obviously I'm very confused on what to do , I don't know if I'm missing some sort of sign or what to do anyone have any advice? Link to comment
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