missing003 Posted October 30, 2017 Share Posted October 30, 2017 Quick run through of people who don’t know my story: - me: 26 (M) - her: 22 (M) - with ex for 3.5 years - no fighting / everything seemed perfect - last month of our relationship she became distant - broke up with me - I felt fully blindsided - broken up for 7 months - no contact 5 months Need advice: I am not fully healed by any means. I am still working on myself and progressing with my healing. It’s been a really rough time, I still miss her and think about her often. But it’s nothing like before, the thoughts come and go through out the day. But I definitely still think about her often. 2 months ago I met a really sweet girl. She is great. I love spending time with her, we have great chemistry and have such a good time together. We have been on many dates in the last couple months. But I still have my ex in the back of my head and know I am not 100% healed yet. I am still having my up and down days / still having random dreams of my ex. The new girl knows that I just got out of a long term relationship and is so understanding with my situation. I really want to be exclusive with this new girl but idk if I am ready and idk what to do. How do you know when you’re ready for a new relationship? Do I back off and stay single until I feel 100% healed or do I move forward with this new relationship and build some new memories with her? Thank you for your advice! Link to comment
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