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  1. I totally agree with you. I just wanted to hear other people’s stories. Everyone has a different path and everyones experience is unique. But it’s interesting to see how people deal with the same type of situation in so many different ways. Thank you everyone for your input!
  2. Does anyone who has broken up with an ex because they just “fell out of love” or lost interest ever think about the one you had fallen out of love with? Just curious because I have seen it go both ways before years later and want to hear some experiences.
  3. Hi, I just wanted to chime in here and say I totally understand how you are feeling. I am in a very similar situation - my ex broke up with me about 2 1/2 years ago. I deleted her off Facebook, Instagram, all that and have had zero contact with her since. I went through all the recovery steps, dated, worked on myself and can say I have grown so much since the break up. I have been in an amazing relationship for the past year and absolutely love my girl friend and what we have. But a part of me still wonders about my ex. Just a lingering thought. To me, I thought I was going to
  4. Exactly, no time table. Everyone heals at a different speed. Don’t beat yourself up, just feel every emotion as they come. I know it can really be a rollercoaster, some days worse than others. But push through, do things that make you happy and focus on enjoying the little things in life. A broken heart makes everything feel so raw in both the good and the bad. So enjoy the good things when you can and push through the darkness when needed. You will get to that light at the end of the tunnel I promise.
  5. Hi all, I just wanted to come back here and give an update and offer any advice needed. Story: - dated my ex for 3 1/2 years - I was 26 she was 23 at the time of the break up. - she fell out of love - left me - I was madly in love with her and thought I was going to marry her. - After the break up, two weeks later I blocked her on all social media because I couldn’t even look at her without crying. But I knew it was over and that I needed to begin my healing process. The break up ripped me apart and brought me to the lowest point in my life. I had never been so sad. I cr
  6. Thank you for this. 8 months ago my ex left me and this is my exact experience so far. I think I will get into meditating, haven’t tried it yet. Still thinking about her daily but letting those thoughts pass. Had a dream about her last night (haven’t in months) and woke up feeling pretty down. Reading this has definitely helped me get my head on straight this morning. Thank you!
  7. I feel like healed will be no longer thinking of my ex constantly. Even through it doesn’t affect me like it used to, it still makes me sad. I think this new relationship could bring those happy emotions that I have been missing and being with someone who I really connect with and who really cares about me would be a great way to stop living in the past and move forward with my life. Thank you so much for your reply!
  8. Quick run through of people who don’t know my story: - me: 26 (M) - her: 22 (M) - with ex for 3.5 years - no fighting / everything seemed perfect - last month of our relationship she became distant - broke up with me - I felt fully blindsided - broken up for 7 months - no contact 5 months Need advice: I am not fully healed by any means. I am still working on myself and progressing with my healing. It’s been a really rough time, I still miss her and think about her often. But it’s nothing like before, the thoughts come and go through out the day. But I definitely still think
  9. Hey there, Well it’s officially been 7 months since the break up and 5 months no contact. (I have my ex blocked on all social media for the past 5 months as well) I was watching a mutual friends Snapchat story a couple days ago and I saw me ex in it. It was the first time I had seen anything of her in 5 months and it was a total accident. Not going to lie, I froze up a bit and just stared at it for a good 5 mins. It made me miss her. But I was surprised how different I felt looking at her. It still hurt to see her, but it was different. Almost like I was looking a ghost of someone I on
  10. Saw a photo of you today, one of our mutual friends had posted it. First one I had seen in 5 months since I initiated no contact. It made me miss you. I looked at it for a good 15 min, just looking at you and remembering the good times we shared. It was almost like seeing your ghost, it was strange. I feel different about you now though. I can’t really describe it, but I know I am and have been healing. If this was 2 months ago I would have started crying just seeing you. I know what we had was in the past and you have moved on with your life. I am trying my hardest to do the same. I will n
  11. 6 months and I am still thinking of you everyday G. I still dream about you. I still have my low days where I cry over the thought of you. I ing miss you. I just miss you.
  12. I was literally just thinking how I needed a little bit of encouragement right now because I have been feeling a little down the last couple days. Opening the app and having this response pop up in a time of need was totally unexpected. Thank you so much for the kind words, I really really appreciate it. Your words have pulled me up and back on my feet. Seriously, thank you friend.
  13. Looking at the situation now, I totally understand that it was bound to happen at some point. You bringing this to light as an outsider looking in on my situation has made me realize the upside of this happening now rather than later. I really appreciate it, it's exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you! (:
  14. So for those that don't know, my ex girlfriend broke up with me 5 months ago - 3 months no contact - 3.5 year relationship. Haven't talked to her since I initiated no contact 3 months ago. My friend ran into her a couple days ago and I specifically told him not to talk about me or tell me if he ran into her until I am healed. Well, he didn't follow what I said. Today at lunch he decided to bring it up "hey man so I ran into "G" today and I can tell she really misses you. She is doing well and I told her about your new job and how well you're doing and she was happy for you. But I could
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