Bbarbie Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 My boyfriend and I got in a fight 1 week ago. We talked about Him partually moving into my place because his work schedule is crazy and he lives faraway but my apartment is closer to his job. He was supposed to move in the weekend and when i asked if he was still moving his stuff over he said he would. I waited all day to hear from him and he texted me to come over to his place cos he was sick. I went over there and he seemed fine. We were happy and chatty and then i had a mood swing because he did not even mention the move in together. So i blew up and asked why he invited me over and why he had not packed his stuff like we talked about, he just didn't respond and instead just kept hugging me. I got so mad and went anf started packing all my stuff in his apartment and told him i was leaving him and our relationship since he did not keep his promise. So he got mad and opened the door for me to leave. I left but came back because i did not want to leave things that way. I tried to sleep on the couch but he asked me to come in the room. I did that and i cried the whole night, i don't know if he heard me or not but sometimes during the night he held me for a minute and then just turned away. So when we woke up in the morning i asked how he was and if he wanted to talk. He said he was fine and was not mad but did not want to talk then and maybe later we could talk. So i told him it was gonna be too awkward for me to hang around and i was leaving and asked him to call when he felt up to it, i also apologized for my part in the situation. he said no problem and that was the last i heard from him and ir has been a week now. Lately he has been going through alot with work stress and his son's mum and his family problems. I have been super understanding and supportive. I don't see him as often as i want to and that is why i suggested the move in since my place is closer to his work. Just a month ago at the same time we talked about the move in, we also talked about marriage and having kids in like 2 years. I Just feel torn and want to move on with or without him but i have no closure, he still has my apt key and some of his clothes and shoes are still here and i have to look at it everyday, also he owes me money for something we bought together and i put on my card. I know i was wrong in losing my cool but i feel bad not only because he did not keep his promise but also how he opened his door to let me leave at 1am. I am just torn and hurt Link to comment
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