Schockobaerin Posted September 7, 2017 Share Posted September 7, 2017 Hi: My exbf dumped me almost 4 weeks ago, I was kind, loving and very nice, a "perfect" gf. Sadly his issues with his exgf and self-steem or selfishness, took its toll and he decided I wasnt worth it, so he broke up with me for the second time, leaving me devastated and numb. Sometimes I feel so stupid, because Im still very nice, and answered his call at saturday, where he showed me his arrogance, telling me that it was the best, and "didnt want for me to wait for him", I have told him that we have to stay out of contact for at least 3 months, and he agreed. I think he has some GIGS plus a lot of baggage, it doesnt matter. Some days I feel good, some days pretty sad, it made me very insecure and I think it is not fair to me, and I am very angry at myself because I know I deserve better, and how could I give another person so much power to let him hurt me so bad.. While he is probably having fun and feeling free, Im here feeling numb and worthless, and its just not fair with me. I know Im not the only one, and I can feel Im feeling better slowly, but wanted to share this experience with you, and ask you for your experience and some tips how to overcome this, how long it has taken for you to feel better, and if he one day is going to regret what he did to me? Not because of revenge, but I dont know, it would make me feel better. My friends are already very tired of hear my moaning, and believe me, now I cry because of myself and how could I let someone do this to me, and how in the hell I want him back still.. Thank you for your advice I just need some bravery words Link to comment
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