Ex gf contacted me after month NC

[Cchance11]

We were together 3 years. She broke up with me because I took her for granted and got complacent in the last half year. I was selfish and she had had enough.

 

I begged and pleaded but then went hardcore No contact. A month later..

 

She texted me last night "Hey. I wanted to apologize to you and any ill feelings you might have towards me. I should have given you more of a chance to talk and I'm sorry. I hope you have a good senior year and you make the best of It"

 

I responded just now a day later "Hey, thanks for reaching out. There are no ill feelings because I know I did some hurtful things too. I need to apologize as well because I know I was not the best partner and I now recognize where I failed. I did not mean to hurt you in the ways that I did. Hope everything is going good."

 

Was this a good response if I want her to continue to think about me in hopes of reconciliation? I felt it was mature and selfless. But I can also see how it relieved her dumpers guilt and could help her move on more. She has not replied and it's been two days. Do you see her ever reaching out again?

[DanZee]

I would say it's best not to play games. Just leave her be. She probably had a low period and thought of you. It happens.

[Elavohra]

Leave it! Just don't reply. They'll dump then they'll feel for us. Don't give heed to her. Keep moving forward.

[RightHand]

Don't hope bro, hope is a dangerous thing. Let it be.