Sklt1 Posted August 8, 2017 Share Posted August 8, 2017 My 6 and a half year relationship ended over 3 weeks ago. We had been living together (renting) for 3 years and talked about buying a house together and marriage etc. We had a wonderful relationship, we were both just as affectionate and loving to each other as day one and I had no idea he was going to do this. He said he can't marry me because he thinks we're too different (even though this was always something he said worked really well and that we complemented each other). I was completely blindsided by this and my whole world is gone, I've had to move back in with my parents and quit my job as it's too far to commute to now. I've lost our lifestyle and don't feel I can be around mutual friends for fear of thinking about him. Even days before he did this he was sending me suggestions for new bigger flats he thought would be great for us to go and look at and was telling me how much he loved me. It doesn't make any sense to me, people were constantly asking him when he was going to propose and I wonder if that has freaked him out (his parents had a bad divorce) and he's started picking apart all the tiny things that he's used to convince himself we wouldn't work. We're both 26 and I've been with him the whole of my adult life so I'm desperate to get him back because I love him so much and he's such an amazing man and everything I wanted. I'm destroyed and can't function without him. It feels so wrong to me to give up on such a strong relationship. Link to comment
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