Moomin Posted April 19, 2017 Share Posted April 19, 2017 I've been with my significant other for 3 years. We have always had issues mainly caused by my family but recently it's became to much. My parents and I do not always see eye to eye which quite often ends in conflict usually caused by them. I usually try to work through these problems by myself because I know my significant other has a short fuse with them. The short fuse is due to his want/need to protect me. I love this don't get me wrong it's what makes me feel secure in our relationship however his way of dealing with things would not help my relationship/situation with my parents. After a recent blow up i have moved in with relatives while waiting to move in with my boyfriend in august. Despite this my boyfriend is still not happy. He believes my parents are awful people and they should not be part of my life. Last night he told me he would never be okay with my parents being part of my life and that i needed to make a decision. But how do i decide something like that? I'm hoping he will calm down and change his mind but if he doesn't what do I do. I love them both more than anything. And my boyfriend has always had my back even when my parents couldn't. What do i do? I don't want to lose my family but i don't want to lose him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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