Question for the guys

[Mysterious Gurl]

Heya

 

I was just wondering ... if a gurl flirts with you is there anything you wish she wouldn't do because it annoys you? It's hard to explain what I mean.

 

is she:

 

Too gurly

too loud

too desperate looking

 

Anything? Or what impresses you when a gurl flirts? Do you like a gurl with her own mind, shy type or the loud and bubbly sort?

 

Please reply just want some advice.

 

Miya

[Sadness_Creeping]

Hrmm interesting quesiton....

Mostly i like just talking, lots of smiles...and maybe a little touchin....but ya everyones differant....about the type...hrmmm, just be your self.

-SC

[Driftin Spirit]

I agree with Sadness Creeping in respect to being yourself but remember the type of person u want to flirt with and flirt to their character. Personally I like cheeky smiles and innocent yet provacative contact just to let me know the intentions clearly.

[Strictly4MyGrind]

If you go over the top....as in your flirt a little to much as in you jump on the person your flirting with thats too much......

[justsweetgirl]

Everybody's different and likes different things. However, I think the point is, BE YOURSELF. Either the guy will like who you are, or he won't. If he doesn't, move on to someone who does. If someone likes you because you are trying to be who they want you to be, this is exhausting and futile. They end up liking someone who doesn't really exist. Aren't you worth more than that?

[YZRiderF]

I can't stand a girl that acts ditsy to get your attention, maybe its just me. When my gf does that i just want to scream cause i know shes not ditsy or stupid drives me crazy.

[out-of-norm]

i hate it when girls are really loud and laugh too much and laugh really loud.

[MetallicAguy]

If the girls unattractive I don't want her all up in my face when she's flirting. Like if your in the guy's personal space aka intimate zone reserved for a gf( below 18 inches from the guy) if your under that that makes me and probably some other guys out there uncomfortable and need to back off. Being too loud is fine. Too girly is fine. Laughing non-stop is annoying. Last year I had some really stupid ditsy girl in my English class and she would never shut the **** up. She'd always would like talk to her friend accross class and giggle like Tickle-Me-Elmo...the kind of stupid *** laugh that makes you want to jump off a skyscraper lol.

[ShySoul]

Flirting shouldn't be something that you do, it should be something that happens naturally. You shouldn't even realize its happening until its been going on for awhile.So be yourself and let what happens happen.

[Mysterious Gurl]

Hey thanks for all your replies!

 

It's just some girls the 'ditzy' type look soooo pathetic when they lay flirting on thick. I mean when I'm at the cinema you get these girls with mini skirts (that look like belts) heavily made up and round ear rings and they flirt by laughing to much standing to close to the guy/s and I'm sat there or stood in line like c'mon give the dude some breathing room!

 

I mean c'mon it's really pathetic and I wouldn't dare do that incase I look totally weird

 

But I just like to act normal about it and just talk and dress in clothes that I feel comfertable in like jeans and a fashionable shirt (that fits)

 

Thanks just wanted some advice and veiws