penguin Posted February 23, 2017 Share Posted February 23, 2017 This is a bit messy and I don't know how it got to this but here goes: My ex whom I have a child with comes to visit child about once a month... we have not been in a relationship for a while now but have been somewhat friends I guess.... we have both said we still have feelings but neither of us can see how it would work ... so that's fine. What comes next isn't though... He came up for a visit and while here a girl tried ringing and he declined the call, my daughter was asking... he said it's just a friend.... I said oh is it a new gf and he said just friends but it may head that way. I didn't think anything of it or ask as none of my business. Anyway later that evening I became upset about a family issue and ex dives in to comfort me and I calmed down but well we took it too far, stopped short of going all the way. He says he still loves me and always will amongst other sentiments. Ok no problem..... he comes back over a week later and we are talking about something and there he is again with the affection and get carried away but again I stopped it going to far. Now for the bit that makes me feel ill.... after he says his "friend" has text and asked if he has slept with me? I'm like well no you haven't technically and I should have twigged but here I am thinking wow she is full on already. Yes I did eventually get it and asked him sorry are you in a relationship with someone and he wouldn't answer so basically "yes he is". I was beside myself.... he said I'll tell her no and I said that's cheating but I didn't feel like it's my place to say anything so left it. That is until she contacted me a few days later and asked directly and I just told the truth. So this of course has led to her cutting him off .... now He sent the most vile email to me in anger because I admitted it and blind copied her in.... trying make me look at fault to save his butt. ??? I am walking around feeling like I ruined it and it's my fault... I'm so depressed but I just will never be someone that lies to cover for anyone if Im being asked. None of this would of ever happened if he told me the truth up front... I would never touch anyone in a relationship! Am I at fault for admitting it ... I'm torn. Link to comment
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