penguin

You really need to get some serious help, you are playing with people like toys and ruining people's lives and breaking their hearts... esp your children. You have pushed everyone away that ever cared and soon there will be no one to blame left..... why do you have no regard for anyone or anything at all? You must be so broken inside.

Hi There, Umm I gather you only had one date.I would presume if I were you that he is dating around and just seeing whats out there.My thoughts are that he may have said we will get to get after the exams just to put some space there and to let you know at this stage he wont be taking it forward.To me he hasnt learnt how to say this upfront yet.Just keep yourself out there and keep dating for now.

There is nothing wrong with you! That said its hard to tell where men are coming from at the best of times! You will ultimately know what you can tolerate from a relationship, if its doing your head in and you have sat down and laid all your hopes, fears and dreams on the table and he is still ducking and weaving then only you can decide if you have expended enough energy on him. I am currently breaking off with my CP because I am tired, literally exhausted by trying to work out the relationship with him. I went out with him ten yrs ago and thought I would give it another shot because I was single and he has been declaring for years I am the one for him....well....pppffff....never seen a man close down so quick the moment I decided to give him a go!! Naturally being a woman we blame ourselves first...oh I am crowding him, oh he needs his space, I am being too emotional blah blah blah....whatever! You know what its not true. I am a lovely, warm, loving human being and I deserve nothing less than being loved and adored by a partner who can and is capable of loving me back and thats all there is too it. I wont be trying to work out his head space any longer, its his problem and its his responsibility to work on it if he wants to, I cant control him, I can only choose whether to participate or not....and I am not!!![/img][/b]