Notfeelinglike Posted February 10, 2017 Share Posted February 10, 2017 Me and my boyfriend has been living together for over 2 years. Lately things are changing. In 2016, we both went through financial rough patches. 2017 has been better as far as finances, but things still are different. He recently told me he needs space, because he wants to focus on getting a better job and going to school. He wants us both to save money and mentions that he wants to buy a house. He also thinks I should move out, at the end of february. I don't know why he needs space to do what he needs to do, when I can help him with the process and am more than willing to help all that I can because he has done the same for me. I love this man with all my heart but I think the reasonings he is given me is bull. I'm starting to suspect that he is cheating on me because he is going out more and keeps his phone on him at all times and gets nervous when it rings while i'm around. I don't know what to do with myself at this point. I feel like im losing my mind. We're not fighting and he's still very loving which is another reason why I can't just accept him wanting me to move out. When he brung it up, we both got very emotional to the point where we held each other and cried all night. This is why I dont want to believe that he's cheating on me but i'm starting to think he wants to be with someone else. I know this may seem like im jumping all over the place, but my mind and thoughts are all in shambles. Im under a tremendous amount of stress, I just started a new job and I have not talked to any of my family or friends about this yet. I think I just want to believe that things will change by the end of the month and everything will be ok. Link to comment
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