Scared?

[SW]

Hi

 

I met this woman a couple of years ago on my bike club, I would talk to her once in a while and I had a little bit of a crush on her. Eventually I got to know her and we started to hang out together as friends. It was obvious we were attracted to each other , but she told me she wanted to remain friends. I was OK with that because we were very good friends.

 

One day we were at her place and I kissed her , she was Ok with that and we started a relationship. A few weeks into the relationshiop she told me did want a serious realtionship , but we were sleeping toigether a week later. She would always say one thing and do another .She broke up with me 3 months in to it,then she asks me back only to break up with me again.I called her after about a month and she wanted to go to a movie together as friends. I wanted to get back with her, so I tried to rekindle a friendship.She would send me all kinds of mixed signals (touching ,holding hands), but as soon as I showed intrestrest in her she stopped calling me.

 

A few months later again I tried to be just friends with her. She was happy to see me again and we hung out a few times as friends. she would do the asking out , I could tell she was really enjoying my company. We got along great ,I did nothing but act as a friend , but when I ask her out I always got an excuse for not going . I would see her around and one day she would act really friendly to me and the next day she would act as I was a stranger.Mow she avoids me because she knows I am interested in her.

 

it seems like she is afraid of me. its like she sabotages a good thing because she is afraid of getting involved to seriously.

[equal marriage]

Time to move on. She's not willing to take the chance and you deserve to find someone who is. If she happens to show interest again, perhaps stating that being her yo-yo is of no interest. Let her pursue you and you decide.