agent1607307371 Posted August 16, 2016 Share Posted August 16, 2016 How would you feel if he periodically brought up that he thought your nose was fat, or your chin weak. But hey, he's just being honest. He knows you know how he feels. He also knows that it hurts you when he brings it up. He's not trying for honesty, he's either trying to hurt you, or just doesn't care if he hurts you. Link to comment
greywolf Posted August 16, 2016 Share Posted August 16, 2016 He knows it hurts me when he mentions it and I know he'd be happy if I removed them. I don't dress provocatively and they're very modestly sized breasts that make me happy I really wish he would learn to accept them. I know it's not a deal breaker for him, but I don't understand how he doesn't see how hurtful hes being Aren't their body parts that he has that are less than perfect? Ask him how he would feel if you brought that up every once in awhile. If we constantly said something hurtful and disguised it as "it's just how I feel" then none of us would have friends. No one is perfect. How is he in other parts of your relationship? Do you notice that he tends to criticize over other things? Link to comment
fanfanlatulip Posted October 21, 2016 Share Posted October 21, 2016 It is unfortunate that your boyfriend doesn't appreciate your breast implants. I happen to believe they can be beautiful. They are a turn-on. I am sure I'm not the only man who feels this way. Link to comment
PaintWithLight Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 Your body is not his possession to evaluate, grade and express acceptance about. If this issue is a stumbling block for him then you have one shallow Hal on your hands. You even said that your augmentation is a rather modest enhancement. Your choices about what you do with your own body are not his concerns. Link to comment
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